Is it possible to hate your sister, but love her at the same time?

Question

Sometimes i want to kill her and scream, and others i think she is so cool...but i dont know how to feel about her-hate or love

Answer 1

Everybody hates their sibling at one time or another. It's a passing thing. How do you react when someone else is picking on her?

Answer 2

Yes, it feels that way. But you are just angry and frustrated with her, that's normal. You don't really hate her, you just hate how she is behaving, and she probably feels the same about you sometimes too. As years go by you will find that you love her more and hate her behavior less until the day arrives when you realize that anyone who does not have a sister is one lonely lady. Be thankful for your sister even when she drives you crazy. No one will ever be like her to you. And no one will ever love you like she does either. Good luck!

Answer 3

to be honest with you, you do love her dearly and I know you don't want to kill her you just get angry with her so I think maybe you should talk to her and make a pack set aside a day or evening just for the 2 of you and do something really fun, I am the baby of 7 so I really got the crapy end of the deal picked on and hated too, I cried alot over this but, now as I have grown up, all my sister's and I are best friends now, in time you 2 will be also, Good luck Sweetie

Answer 4

Yes, it's possible. From one point you have to love her because she's you sister and sibling. But the other view you hate her because she can be frustrating and difficult sometimes or another. I know how you feel. And yes it is possible.
But don't hate her for just that, You've gotta love her!

Answer 5

Anytime I have felt that way , I hate them because I love them. It wouldn't make sense to have such strong negative feelings against someone unless you also had posititve ones too. Your sibling relationship has the potential to be the longest one of your life. Long after you r parents have passed you will know your sister for the longest. It's worth it to make it a good relationship .

Answer 6

Perfectly possible, but don't let the hate overcome the love. She may be feeling the same about you.

Just accept that just like everybody else, she has faults, if you can help change them then do so if not then accept or ignore them.

I have found if its annoying stuff that you hate, what you can do is trade- give up one of your annoying (we all have 'em) habits for one of hers.

And babe its not her you hate but prob the things she does.

Answer 7

yeah! It is not only with sisters & brothers but with all relations as well.

We may not love one That's not a sin. But to hate someone without concrete reasons is a sin. This motiveless malignity is the greatese negative streak in human mind.

Better, think calmly & analyze! You'll come not to hate anyone even your enemies!

Answer 8

trust me all sisters r the same. i hate my sister so much sometimes especially when she bluntly tells me things that hurt i feel she gets pleasure of it. but then there r times when i need her and she is always there no matter what time. i know i can rely on her and trust her but some times i feel like killing her. thats what sister hood is all abt

Answer 9

same way my sister is sometimes i wanna punch her in her freakin face and other times shes prettty ok but i think were getting closer becuz shes going to college in the fall but most of the time we dont get along cuz theirs a 6 year age difference i know thats alot

Answer 10

yes, it is possible.

I don't know if you should think of killing her, that you may need help about.

I hate my sister, but I also love her. She is a 24 year old high falootin, stuck up little girl who thinks she is Holier than Thou.

However, we are to love one another, so I love her