Ok so I move from one state to another and I end up staying with my son's father's relative and for some reason he tells me he's attracted to me and am I attracted to him. We end up having sex and things just spun off from there.Now it's just my daughter,him, and me living there and he's shut down drasticaly.When he went back home to visit his family he was either calling me every few hours or I was calling him,he was always telling me how much he missed me.About 2 weeks after he gets back he's acting all withdrawn,irritable,snappy, with no affection towards my daughter or myself.We didn't even have sex until yesterday(after going a week without)and even then he barely touched me except where he had to.When I asked him earlier why he was acting like this and were we over? He says that it dosen't matter to him(saying this after I told him a few days before that I was in love with him).I have a very hurtful past,I've been beaten by my dad and my kid's dad..I usually don't get emotional..
2006-07-13 06:57:40 · 6 answers · asked by nativemucklucks 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
but I'm so attatched to him now...he says that he's not cold harted and I don't know how he feels about me but wouldn't it make sense for him to tell me...I mean he's told me about the last woman he was in love with who completly broke his heart and now he's making an effort to not take whats going on with him out on me but I just don't feel like his heart is in it.
2006-07-13 07:14:07 · update #1
Well, it sounds to me like you deserve someone who loves you back. Try to move on, because this guy doesn't sound like the right one for you. You can do better! For the sake of your daughter and for your own sake, remember just how valuable you are, and set a good example for her. Good luck.
2006-07-13 07:07:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He probably told someone in his family that he was seeing you, and they got ticked and made him feel guilty about it. You will have to get with him and tell him that there's nothing wrong with taking up with a catch like you - it's the other peoples fault that your first guy gave you a baby and dumped you, and this new guy saw how great you are.
He is going to have to choose between the rest of his family and you - please don't make it a hard choice. Give him encouragement and love, and maybe he will do the right thing. Of course, he may not (blood is thicker than water), so get ready to move someplace nicer if he can't get over his family's opinion.
2006-07-13 14:11:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW, let me get this straight. You slept with your son's father's relative and now he is ignoring you. If this guy is acting this way he was just using you. I don't think it's an actual relationship. If I were I would try and move out and move on.
2006-07-13 14:03:17 · answer #3 · answered by BbyGrl80 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know why he would be acting like this. maybe he told someone important to him that doesnt approve? i would suggest writing down everything you want to say to him and then have a serious talk with him.
good luck.
2006-07-13 14:02:05 · answer #4 · answered by ziggunerin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You allowed him to use you. Get out, get help and stop giving yourself so freely. You would be in trouble if you slept with anyone that says i like you.
2006-07-13 14:13:26 · answer #5 · answered by Eddie F. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe the love word was to much for him
2006-07-13 14:04:33 · answer #6 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋