people call me a sult because i have had 8 boyfriends since 4th grade!
2006-07-13 06:53:53 · 30 answers · asked by twinkiekimmycub1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They don't call you a slut because you had 8 boyfriends. They call you a sult because of what you do with them. If you know you are not a slut then screw them! People are gonna talk about you no matter what!
2006-07-13 06:57:40 · answer #1 · answered by itsmeee2006 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell them to look in the dictionnary....no such word exists! Besides the real definition of a slut (societie's definition) is someone that sleeps with any guy she meets or has sexual relationships with many men at a time.So tell them they can stick it where the sun don't shine!People that say these things are either too reserved or jealous t the fact that they do not have any relationships at all....or some people just feel that way about themselves and feel the need to take it out on you.....so don't let them bother,it doesn't matter what they think cause obviously these people are not your your friends because real friends don't say those things.
2006-07-13 07:03:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People assume from the number of boyfriends you've had (admittedly, at a very young age) that you are engaged in more than flirting to attract that much male attention.
Frankly put, they assume you are having engaged in sexual activity with a serial procession of different boys. This is essentially the practical definition of the word Yahoo! censors.
The easy answer (no pun intended) to your question is to stop jumping from boyfriend to boyfriend. If you aren't ready to commit to one boy, stop getting into relationships with many for relatively short periods of time.
Of course, all of the above assumes you're not actually engaged in sexual activity with them...just that people are jumping to that conclusion.
If, however, you actually are experimenting and putting out for this many boys at so young an age, it's a different story. This behavior really would be defined as "****-ish", and the way you stop "being called" it is to stop slezaing around.
A more pointed question would be, why is a 4th grade girl driven to have so many boyfriends? Is something missing in your home life - specifically in your relationship with your father - that has you hell bent for male attention in this way?
That's a harder question to answer, but I think the underlying question you really ought to be talking to an adult about.
2006-07-13 07:01:32 · answer #3 · answered by Timothy W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...it depends on how you act. If you dress in skimpy outfits that could be the problem. If you have a new boyfriend every week or so that could be a problem. Mostly, you just need to slow life down a bit and take it easy. Spend a lot of time with your friends and family and dont be mean to people. Of course I dont know you so i cant tell you how to act, im saying this based on my experiences. Hope you quit getting called that!
2006-07-13 07:04:09 · answer #4 · answered by yayhorsie_92 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being a slut is sleeping around with anyone and everyone you can and I hardly think that grade school boyfriends count. Ignore them, they probably have never even had a boyfriend/girlfriend. They only get satisfaction out of it if you let them know it bothers you. Sounds stupid but ignoring my parents and giving them the silent treatment when they are on a lecturing rampage drives them nuts. Works with everyone so far.
2006-07-13 06:59:58 · answer #5 · answered by nahimana34 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up and stop worring about what others say. In the,day's gone by,it was the thing to date Lot's of guy's. Looking for a the person,you plan on loving with,for the rest of your life,was taken seriously! Now day's people have a ten-dace to jump into relationship's too fast. In my opinion,that's why the divorce rate is so high. Looking for a mate is like shopping. You have to shop. Keep on shopping. That's LIFE!
2006-07-13 07:05:11 · answer #6 · answered by Wishee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get the hell out of here!!!!! 8 boyfriends since 4th grade hardly constitutes a slut. but if you are sick of the dogs, stop putting out the dog food!
2006-07-13 06:57:57 · answer #7 · answered by queenreignsupreem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them that you aren't having sex with them and just because you have had 8 b/fs does not mean that makes you a slut.
2006-07-13 06:58:52 · answer #8 · answered by Kittie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop acting like one. you SOUND WAY TOO YOUNG to be involved in those kinds of relationships! go get an ice cream cone, and enjoy your life..
play with some Barbie dolls! get an EasyBake oven and learn how to cook and leave the boys alone!
2006-07-13 06:58:05 · answer #9 · answered by blkrose65 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had more since 3rd grade. lol.
if u know what your not a s*ut the dont worry about it. they dont have the right to call u that. well if u didnt sleep with any of them, then your fine.
dont worry and go on with your life
2006-07-13 06:57:12 · answer #10 · answered by ♥xoxo♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋