he might call today to talk to me the first time in 9 years and i dont know what to say someone HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!PLEASE HELP
2006-07-13 06:53:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Say hello first of all! Then ask him how he is? Ask questions about his life and in return tell him about you. It will work wonderfully, if you just relax and be happy you are seeing him.
How wonderful for you!!
2006-07-13 06:57:09 · answer #1 · answered by Carla S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its been 9 yrs and he 'Might' call, this man has auotmatically given up any respect and trust that you 'Might' have for him, dont want to sound like im having a go at your dad but you shouldnt worry to much about what to say to him, it will come naturally. Would you ever not talk to your child for that long for any reason?
Sorry about my answer, looks pretty angry when i read it back. Some great advise i got once was to look in a mirror when your on the phone, if your smiling when you talk you will sound great. good luck
2006-07-13 07:05:01 · answer #2 · answered by CC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say hey, I would want to know why it took 9 years for him to call, My biological father has only talked to me 2 times in 27 years so I would want to know why.
2006-07-13 07:06:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be polite and don't get emotional. Ask him how he is doing and what he is up to these days and try to have a regular conversation. Do not bring up any issues that caused you to stop talking with your dad or he talking with you. Ask him if he would like to meet you for lunch or dinner.
I went through that with my dad for 5 years.
2006-07-13 07:00:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through the same type of thing...so when he did call I 1st said "Hello" 2nd I asked how he was doing 3rd I told him how I felt about him 4th I told him no matter what I loved him...so now we still talk just not as much as we should...Good Luck
2006-07-13 07:01:32 · answer #5 · answered by Lady B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive had a dad living with me and we havent talked for 20 yrs but as soon as he talked to me i told him how he made me feel and that despite the way he treated me he would always be my father and i would always love and respect him now we dont have the same situation but u might wanna try the same as i did
2006-07-13 06:58:31 · answer #6 · answered by jean hllnd_2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start with HI and let the rest go from there. It's gonna feel uncomfterable no matter what. Just say what you feel needs to be said. The rest will come to you. Good luck!
2006-07-13 07:25:20 · answer #7 · answered by happy_jean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know just how you feel, i met my father for the first time in 40 years
and i'm pleased we get on very well. I'm sure your nervous but try not to worry too much, I hope it goes well.x
2006-07-13 06:58:26 · answer #8 · answered by ♪♫♪♫ Jàñëÿ ♪♫♪♫ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember he will be as nervous as you are...
Put a big smile on yr face and say "Hi Dad!" and he will take it from that point on...
Good luck:)
2006-07-13 06:57:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"hey, what have u been up to? having fun with out me?"
thats a good starter. but try to be nice while conveying your true feelings. i went trough it, and i still can barely talk to him.
2006-07-13 06:56:46 · answer #10 · answered by da big red juggalo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋