once good eyecontact has been made, how do men create attraction with that woman or women in general?
for women
What was it that your current or past boyfriend had about him or said that made you attracted to him?
2006-07-13 06:31:35 · 13 answers · asked by Modus Operandi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I like a man who can be himself and be totally comfortable with it...One thing, ladies love men who are confident...and thats a turn on for me...
Oh,and dont use pick up lines fellas!! That shyt has gotten sooooooooo tiring! AMEN ladies??
2006-07-13 06:36:57 · answer #1 · answered by TitaWidTheGoldenVoice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty and great sense of humor. My husband is a very patient,reasonable man and a very good listener too. Whenever we had a disagreement he will stay calm and after an hour or so then he will explain what was going on and when we argue about something he will never open his mouth to object but again after an hour or so then only he'll state his opinion. He's a very cool guy.So far after 7 years together we have never stay mad at each other for more than a couple of hour. That's why I love him very much.Cheers!
2006-07-13 06:55:12 · answer #2 · answered by noreez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, to be honest, you cant really create it. If you're attracted to someone, I find that you both usually just feel it instantaneously. Howwwwever- sometimes you can be friends with a woman fora long time and not realize that you are attracted to eachother. Casually touching their hand or arm during conversation, making them laugh, doing considerate things (dont be overly! it is UNATTRACTIVE to be overly attentive and sweet when there is no relationship with a person yet); Dont be overly available for them either.... I just think when you meet someone youre attracted to and who is attracted to you, youll both know it. And you wont have to wonder how to "create attraction", because it will already be there. good luck!
2006-07-13 06:40:01 · answer #3 · answered by nikkib 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK I'm a guy I'm giving you a advice it woks most of the time with a woman u always need to listen to her, show her respect how much u love her and be very romantic(NOT A PIG) oh and always have par fume around a good example ,a par fume that i use and most f the girls like Givenchy Blue Label for men.
2006-07-13 06:39:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A great sense of humor, and a feeling that the guy is comfortable with himself as a person, are qualities that are very attractive to most women.
2006-07-13 06:35:02 · answer #5 · answered by DG 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I separate the person from who they are, i.e. a body part, that person has an incredible bottom, or they are hot, I am separating the person from who they are to how they appear/look. I am also idealizing who they are based on the objectification of their body, i.e., because that person is hot, I would like to get to know them, or somehow they are appealing emotionally mentally because they are hot. As I am objectifying, lust shows itself in fantasy. What would I like, what would I like to do with and to them. So I would say when the idealized picture of this person is replaced with reality, IE., who they really are. You can accept and be willing to see past faults, issues, problems because Love carries no jealousy, love doesn't judge, love don't do anything for self gratitude, love gives unconditionally, love is trust, love is respect, love is truth!
2006-07-14 19:20:01 · answer #6 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-07-13 11:33:38 · answer #7 · answered by the1stmover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He smelled like soap... like he just showered. He was kindof flirty, but shy at the same time. Women like to "wonder" and be intrigued. I think most of it is mental attraction, not so much physical, because women are deeper than men. So spark interest with mystery.
2006-07-13 06:37:54 · answer #8 · answered by seamonkey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the looks really get me... if he is confident and knows when and how to flirt. if I flirt back he should keep talking if I don't he should shut up.... most of the time if he's made eye contact and I've returned it and he starts talking, an I respond positivly...then yeah I'm very attracted. there is just something about when two people meet and they just click..don't try too hard it should just happen
2006-07-13 06:36:26 · answer #9 · answered by JeNe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make her feel like she is the only woman in the room. Your complete attention, watch closely her responses and not just verbal but body language. Be confident but not cocky. And no stupid pick up lines, lean in when you talk, if she doesnt pull away you have her attention.
2006-07-13 06:39:06 · answer #10 · answered by just me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋