for everytime me and my suggnificent other argue. i'm always calling him to appoligze. i know when its my fault, i should. but when its not my fault i also do it. cuz i hate us fighting. and i cry and cry all the time. what should i do. i love this man to death, so leaving him is out of the ? any suggestions????????
2006-07-13 05:55:08 · 6 answers · asked by babi_gurlballa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
By you always opologizing for all of your arguments you are making easy for him. And eventually because you always be the one to say you are sorry,( even when it IS his fault) you convince him that he does NOTHING wrong. You will be teaching him that he is always right, and you are teaching him not to EVER feel sorry for his action. YOU are creating problems that you will not be able to deal with later. You said you love him. Then let him show you that he loves you too by apologizing for what he has done.
2006-07-13 06:16:37 · answer #1 · answered by vhat40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you could do is talk to him about it and if that dosen't work then the next time you two get into an argument with him being on the guilty end (though really it takes two to tango) then sit back and see if he calls to apologize. If you don't hear from him then he obviousely has little or no respect for you or your relationship. In other words if its not big of a deal enough for you to leave him then it looks like your going to be doing alot more crying over the years. Good luck!
2006-07-13 13:00:21 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you stay with someone who makes you cry all the time. You are really an idiot if leaving him is out of the question. You must hate yourself. So....I hope you have a long life of crying and feeling sorry for yourself and apologizing when you've done nothing wrong.
2006-07-13 12:59:28 · answer #3 · answered by shakia27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not healthy because it causes you undue stress. You should not apologize when it's not you're fault, just try to talk about it. If you guys can't talk about it, you can write it down and then ignore it. But if it gets out of hand, I think you should love yourself enough to get rid of him. Love sometimes make you blind and make you believe that you really love someone when you shouldn't.
2006-07-13 12:58:35 · answer #4 · answered by starr 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't apologize if it's not your fault
2006-07-13 12:57:27 · answer #5 · answered by buzy_bee_21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont get too worked up about every timme you fight... that's common...
2006-07-13 12:59:04 · answer #6 · answered by Miss Hawt Feet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋