Im 16 and my boyfriend is 18 and we think that we are ready for our first time doing it. we do care about each other. I am a strong believer in christ, is it still bad? what should i do. am i too young?
2006-07-13 05:47:55 · 17 answers · asked by gymnastxo8 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think there is a lot of presure to be doing what you are thinking about doing, I say your too young. Its often something people regret doing later, and once they've done it they use it as an excuse to do it more. I'm sure you care about your bf, but be careful about the laws in your state, you are still underaged, and he is an adult. I think you should wait. If you give your self to him now, you just get sex, if you wait, you get diamonds, and jewlry and rings, and then sex. It will be better if you wait till your hormones aren't so in control of your body
2006-07-13 05:52:45 · answer #1 · answered by lynda_Luv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you think your ready think about this: sexual transmitted diseases. What would you do if you caught one? what would you do if you ended up pregnant? Can you handle these situations? If not, it is not time for you to take this step. As far as the Christ aspect, I am a non-believer so I can not comment on that. I just know your too young to handle the problems that can arise if you go through with the act. Good luck.
2006-07-13 12:52:18 · answer #2 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you're still to young and hes at an adult age cause 18 in most states is considered and adult.and him having sex with an 16 year old would be called rape.so if i were you i'd wait til you get married.or turn 18 and hes 20 then there wont be any thing bad said about you to having sex.
2006-07-13 12:54:08 · answer #3 · answered by Angel sent from heaven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're way too young to start an adult relationship with unknown consequences, let alone the religious beliefs. Do not attempt such thing until growing up further and giving it different thought.
2006-07-13 12:53:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember the traffic lights at a crossing.
2006-07-13 12:54:01 · answer #5 · answered by kalibilchi86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've made so many mistakes in my life I won't even try to tell someone else how to live theirs but I will say use protection!
2006-07-13 12:51:16 · answer #6 · answered by Karen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no ur too young ur just the right age to do it cause if u dont right now then ur bf's just probably gonna leave u for someone who will do it with him so my advice is do it!!!!
2006-07-13 12:52:05 · answer #7 · answered by "MXWA4LIFE" 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Under the circumstances maybe you should plan a wedding!
2006-07-13 12:53:59 · answer #8 · answered by wancarol 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no your not to young you should "do it".......it is a sin to do it unless your NOT marrie but if u r married it is not a sin...but who cares u can always be forgived.........now get in bed wit your guy and show him what your made of
2006-07-13 12:51:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wil i can't say you are to young because i was 13years old when me and my boyfriend had sex he was 15 it was ok. it ok to do it only if you really love them really love them and they feel the same way about you.. we are 17and 19years old now and we are marryed.....good luck
2006-07-13 12:58:23 · answer #10 · answered by Babygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋