well i meet her online in dec...in april we becamed very close...in may 1st week i praposed to her n she accepted it..now we interact thr sms around 30/dy.n talk to offen at nights..we live in diff cities but we have meet once in real...ha a gud time......if i dnt talk to her thr sms or on cell i dnt fee nice.......not more then 3 hrs..........but y smetmes i have doubts that do i realy love her? differents thoughs cme into my mind.................n sme she also has it.................y this happens? it is normal initial or may be we dnt knw wht is true love...........or meaning of love..............or smetimes else.............it is normal to hav these thoughs or not gud n we should get seprated...but on getg the fact of leavg each other we bth cryed.........but i dnt like the fact that we bth get these doubts cmetimes....y this happ?
2006-07-13 05:42:54 · 19 answers · asked by ss 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
normal means.......all do have it..............
2006-07-13 05:51:57 · update #1
I can't really understand what you're saying, man. But I think I get the jist of it. You should stick with it a little more, get together IRL much more, and have real interaction with each other. All relationships go through doubt, but if you're doubting this early then you may be in trouble. Love is a physical thing, and requires a physical connection. If you both aren't ready to commit physically to each other, then you need to go your separate ways. Don't fret, though, there are lots of fish in the sea. You need to decide for yourself if you're ready to throw this one back.
2006-07-13 05:49:28 · answer #1 · answered by mtjbrady 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is different for everyone. You must really do love her or have some very strong feelings for her to have proposed so fast. You met on-line and you don't see each other very much..in fact you only seen her once. And you text each other more than you actually talk. This could also be a reason for the doubts. That doesn't mean that you love her any less. You should just try to see each other a little more often and talk. Try to communicate with her, because if you are both having doubts now it may not be such a good thing to be engaged. It will work out though. You just have to communicate how you are feeling with her.
2006-07-13 05:47:27 · answer #2 · answered by ♫†☼☼♥Natasha♥☼☼†♫ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably get those doubts because you knew her for such a short period of time and decided to just marry her like that, and on top of that you live in 2 different cities. You should at least know the person for some years before you just decide to get married like that. And the fact that BOTH of you are having these doubts is really a problem, either seek counseling or get out of the situation and be wiser before you just decide to "pop the question" to some random girl.
2006-07-13 05:46:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, do you have issues with vowels in certain words? If your question is too long you can always ADD DETAILS. We shouldn't have to translate your answer. Second, you are having doubts because you have met this woman ONCE! That is not a relationship, it's a pen pal.
2006-07-13 05:47:02 · answer #4 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How the heck can you propose to someone you've only met once? Love evolves when you spend time with a person and get to know them inside and out. Even when you are living with someone you are still learning about them every day.
2006-07-13 05:47:14 · answer #5 · answered by Twinkle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you've been fairly kept, how ought to even as think ofyou've got doubts? I easily do not understand what being kept ought to probably propose, what you're meant to were kept from, yet when God got here and did something to me and that i began doubting that it befell, i ought to heavily question the actual incontrovertible truth that something befell in any respect....
2016-11-06 07:59:16 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u should just spend more time with her in real person cause maybe ur feelin like this cause u dont see enough of each other cause it aint the same talkin on the phone or talkin online like actually being with her in real person cause im almost positive this is what's happenin.
good luck with that
2006-07-13 05:46:54 · answer #7 · answered by "MXWA4LIFE" 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't been with each other irl enough. It's foolish to propose to someone you've spent so little REAL time with. You need to see other people who live in your city or make the comitment to move to hers. That's REAL love. :)
2006-07-13 05:51:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a hasty relationship that you want to conclude with marriage. Think about it deeply before you go further and while you're doing this please learn how to write and spell properly. Good Luck to both of you.
2006-07-13 05:49:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is nervousness evryone has it and then ask if it is a mistake u guys r just nervous about the whole situation.
2006-07-13 05:47:14 · answer #10 · answered by babiedoll9264 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋