If you do, do you regret it later?
Personally, I never ever buy women drinks.
I let other guys buy them drinks and swoop in.
But seriously, what's up with spending all that $$$ on drinks for women you don't know?
You know they're laughing at you and thinking you're a sucker right?
2006-07-13 05:40:37 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous P 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Zip zero, they get no love from me unless it's a female friend. Here in the U.S. woman have their own cash. They wouldn't be at a bar if they had no cash. Plus that whole buying a chick a drink so that you could get to know her is so 1970's. Let's get real here it's all about eye contact and good conversation. Once you establish that, you can offer her a drink but first make sure that the fish is on the hook first.
2006-07-13 05:45:51 · answer #1 · answered by zmebme 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I buy drinks for women. It keeps women coming to the places I frequent.
I buy drinks for everyone though. I think it is nice for others to get something given to them every once in a while.
Do I regret it? Never. If a person is an OCD tight a-- or indigent then I guess it might.
I like all women, whether I know them or not, and they all deserve a drink on me even if they think I am a "sucker" (which I am)
2006-07-13 12:49:03 · answer #2 · answered by BluntForceTrauma 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are a lot of Gold Diggers where I live at (Newport Beach, CA) so I tend to try and downplay my financial situation. If a girl will pay my way for the first date, I know that she's into me for more than money. So to answer you're question, No and Yes. When I go out as a single guy, NO. When I am going on a second, third, fourth, etc... date, YES.
2006-07-13 12:44:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope! Women are the bar leeches of the world. They go to bars just for that reason. Drink free and screw with men's minds all night.
They want to get to know me they can buy me a drink or make plans for a date the next night.
2006-07-13 12:43:55 · answer #4 · answered by sammyk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The fact is, I don't go out because I can't afford it. I wouldn't buy women drinks if I did go out because I can't afford it. God, I'm lonely, but at least they aren't laughing at me, or thinking I'm a sucker.
2006-07-13 12:48:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I buy them drink's all the time, orange juice, slushi's, coffee. And I never regret it. But I dont mind spending the big buck's on the ladies. My mom say's I'm a catch.
2006-07-13 12:44:34 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she is alone then maybe jsut to start a conversation, bu tif she is with a bunch of her friends no way ,, waste of money and time to buy them a drink.
2006-07-13 12:44:54 · answer #7 · answered by tryinhard 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey now guys buy drinks hoping its a good gesture towards the girl ... i say I'll buy the next round. It shouldnt be the guys all the time.
2006-07-13 12:44:10 · answer #8 · answered by tequieromucho2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER....and after they let all the suckers buy them drinks, and they r nice and tipsy, then they come back over to see what i am up to...
2006-07-13 12:45:12 · answer #9 · answered by Mr Smith 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would say typically guy buy drinks is to get to know her and to click off if possible. For mi i oni buy drinks for the gal frens i know
2006-07-13 12:47:36 · answer #10 · answered by mervz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋