It just makes me feel disrespected and like he gets pleasure hurting me...I tried telling him I dont like it after I let him do it for 2 years just to make him happy. he got mad at me and ignored me for the rest of the night. He said I should know he loves me and that hes not trying to treat me like a whore....
For the guys...why do you like to hurt your GF like that? And if you love someone, would you stop doing it?? And is he getting pleasure by degrading me? Should I stick to my guns and not let him? Or just do what ever makes him happy? Just keep in mind "IT HURTS"
2006-07-13 05:38:24 · 10 answers · asked by gigerninfo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you told him first time and then now you give in to let him do that for 2 years and what willhe do with all the pictures??? send to someone one to look at. Did you ever wonder where pictures will be going??? what if it land the wrong person hand.
that BF of yours not listen how you feel and he mad becaue of that???? well He need to find other woman that will let him take picture all he wants. But he knows that being with girl and you have done alot for 2 years for him and no wit time for him to back off and find other hobbies.
Who cares what he htink.. It time for him to learn that He hurt your feelings. and I would say stick to your guns and not let him becasue you boyfriend and girlfirnd how you know it gonna last long. You are very pretty lady and you don't need this. If he get mad and everything thank god you not married to him and now you are a free woman from him and before you do make sure he give all the picture back to you.. He can use that v.s. you if you break up with him.
2006-07-13 05:54:23 · answer #1 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've let him do it for 2 yrs now ????? Why in the hell would you let him do something you dont like and that hurts you for 2 yrs ?? Obviously he likes rough sex so you either need to leave him or ask him to at least not hurt you. It can be rough without pain. Dont ever do things you dont want to do and dont stay in a situation that you feel degraded in. Its not worth what it could be doing to your mind.
2006-07-13 05:43:57 · answer #2 · answered by JustMe 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
RUN AWAY unless you want a life of domestic abuse with you as the punching bag. You say it hurts and he continues the behavior. You are being disrespected girl so how long are you gonna take it. A man hurts me in bed he is gone, and he's taking a little reminder along with him. You dont' need us to tell youwaht to do. You already know. Get away fast and never look back you deserve better and no boyfriend at all is much better than this jerk. I do not want to be reading about you in the papers in the obit section.
2006-07-13 05:44:25 · answer #3 · answered by digimutt 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Listen,girl if u love urself, and if u need a partner who loves u, and want a future with then obviously u need to dummp that abuser.My fiance' would never prolong with sex, if he knows im not enjoyin myself, he trys to ensure that every step of the way, im having a good time together.So therefore, he loves and respect my body, and he doesnt have sex to satisfy himself only but also to satisfy me. Baby, u better leave that man, because he's the same one who will leave after abusing ur body,sooner or later, u gonna hear him start complaining that u r too slack or loose n he's the one who did it cuz u allow him to. u better leave before he dump u. u r worth a better man who loves n care 4 u.
2006-07-13 07:27:27 · answer #4 · answered by unique wife 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see the problem is you've let him do it for too long.. and now he thinks it's normal
the rough stuff is cool if it's just a one night stand or a fling
but after a while.. or in your case two years.. he should be able to cater to his girl or wifey.. if my girl wants me to be gentle.. then i'll give that to her.. that's what intimacy is all about right?
keep talking to him about it.. stand up for yourself.. let him know you're serious.. and that you don't like it.. and won't go for it anymore
give him some time.. if he continues to get mad or ignores you for a long period.. maybe it's time for you to take a second look at your relationship
if he can't give you what you need.. then it's time to move on.. relationships are all about communication and compromise
2006-07-13 06:17:25 · answer #5 · answered by do it movin' 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are not comfortable with it...especially if it hurts...you really need to stick to your guns. And I am sorry but he is a pig if he doesnt respect you enough to stop.
2006-07-13 05:45:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF IT HURTS, AND I DIDN'T LIKE IT, I WOULDN'T LET HIM DO IT ANY MORE. AFTER ALL MAKING LOVE IS SUPPOSED TO BE A GENTLE "LOVING" EXPRESSION. NOT A KICK THE HELL OUT OF EACH OTHER KIND OF THING.
DUMP HIM. THERE ARE OTHERS AROUND WHO WON'T WANT TO HURT YOU.
2006-07-13 05:42:55 · answer #7 · answered by BOOMBOOMBILLY 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My man does this too. You know what I did? Slapped the **** out of him while I was on top during orgasam, then got off before he could finish. Hahahahahah.
2006-07-13 05:41:50 · answer #8 · answered by Hello A 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
If its something that you hate doing then don't let him get his freak on elsewhere you find someone who will full fill your wants and needs.
2006-07-13 05:42:07 · answer #9 · answered by nitenurse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cant help you there i love that sh**
2006-07-13 05:41:20 · answer #10 · answered by candidworker 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋