My little sister is only 13 and she wants to date already and the guys she hangs out with
i'm afraid she'll get hurt by. She wants to date guys that are my age. I'm worried about her.
2006-07-13 05:26:50 · 17 answers · asked by Finney 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This would be a time you should talk to your parents. She is wanting attention and i am sure she will get it. So before she gets it from the wrong places > talk to your parents !!!!
2006-07-13 05:31:24 · answer #1 · answered by terri j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are u? if ur only a year or two older than her than i dont see a problem letting her date them...if your are like 18 or even 16 i dont think she should date them. All u can do is tell her never let anybody do anything mean to her and dont let a guy force her into something. she is old enough to start dateing though as long as the guys arent crackheads, players or anyhting else i dont see a problem, be a big sis not a parent
2006-07-13 12:34:45 · answer #2 · answered by Kitkat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure how old you are, but she should probably date boys that are her age. You might want your sister to talk to people who were in relationships with older men so that your sister has an idea of what she's going into. She probably wants to date someone who's more mature mentally and physically, but she may not be able to handle some of the things that physically mature men like to do (if you know what i mean).
2006-07-13 12:34:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe if you tell her how much you love her and care about her, she'll fill that need to be loved inside her with you. You could do some activities together, or even hang out with some boys together in a very controlled environment, like all go to eat or movies together. That way you can be with her and show her a responsible way of being with boys, show her how to value herself and not be taken advatage of. You can also see how she behaves and encourage the behaviors you think are appropriate and don't punish her for the others, but lightly disencourage them.
2006-07-13 12:30:57 · answer #4 · answered by Stephanie S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your parents. Your sister is way too young for dating and the guys know it, they just want to take advantage of her. She had no idea what she is doing to ruin her future and that lasts a long time if you are lucky. Go to your parents and see if they cannot intervien. Your sister may be angry with you for doing this but she will thank you when she is older and sees what it is that you were trying to save her from
2006-07-13 12:32:26 · answer #5 · answered by digimutt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her. Tell her that she should take things slow because she is still a "little" sister. Tell her that she will get her chance to date as much as she wants... in about 3 years. Hopefully she will understand.
2006-07-13 12:31:06 · answer #6 · answered by babyjay_babyjae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep an eye on her. maybe get her to hang out with you then you can. thats about all you can do she will learn by her mistakes. but with a great big sis around to help she will be fine
2006-07-13 12:30:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is your business, your her big sister, and you should look out for her. Talk to her about it, set a good example. She needs some guidence.
2006-07-13 12:37:02 · answer #8 · answered by lynda_Luv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont let her do it! At 13 she needs all the help she can get!
2006-07-13 12:31:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her WAY to young to be dating older boys and I think the boy needs to meet your parents before she does in anything cause adults have alot of experience in dating.
2006-07-13 12:30:30 · answer #10 · answered by kellieprocks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋