I'm in a relationship right now and I love my guy but I also love sex and have had sex with at least 8 other guys, several times, since we been together. Since my boyfriend doesn't know and it's been going on for a year now, should I tell him because I don't plan on stopping. And I do use protection with the other guys.
2006-07-13 05:20:36 · 12 answers · asked by Paris J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Personally I think it's disrespectful to lie and cheat behind some-body's back ... but that's just what I was taught growing up .. it's called morals ... !
Treat others the way you want to be treated ... !
2006-07-13 05:31:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honesty is the best thing in the world so why lying about something you have no regrets about and you have plans to go ahead with it .talk to your boyfriend ans say you would love to have other experiences and you're not ready to be in a serious relationship for the moment and all you're asking for is a some time to think about your life and what do you want to do with it.but i hope that it's worth it because there's nothing worse than loosing someone who loves you just because of a bit of fun.but my advice is be clear with him coz am sure this is the minimum that he deserves.good luck
2006-07-13 12:33:08 · answer #2 · answered by celine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you even with your boyfriend if you are going to do this to him?
This is why sex was designed to between a husband and a wife and why God warns us about pre marital sex. I feel sorry for you and for your boyfriend.
You for missing out on the beauty of losing your virginity to someone that you really love and will be living with until death.
And him- pretty much for being with you- as disrepectful as you are to him
2006-07-13 12:26:40 · answer #3 · answered by texasgirl5454312 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would you feel if the situation were reversed? Would you want to stay with your boyfriend if he's been sleeping with other women while you've been dating? If you aren't planning on stopping, then don't drag someone elses feelings into this. Just stay single and sleep with all the guys you want. It's not fair to him if you aren't planning to stop.
2006-07-13 12:25:57 · answer #4 · answered by 4XTrader 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow- its such a great pleasure to meet you Paris Hillton / not.
You are a whore and I feel sorry for your boyfriend. Why do you play these games with him?
2006-07-13 12:26:32 · answer #5 · answered by fasb123r 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just think you definitely don't need to be in a relationship...break it off before he gets hurt...
2006-07-13 12:25:05 · answer #6 · answered by Lorena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was up to me i would tell him that i been sleeping around, i would rather come out clean than him finding out the harder way...
2006-07-13 12:28:25 · answer #7 · answered by jen. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would be the reason for telling him? Keep it to yourself
2006-07-13 12:24:25 · answer #8 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea ur sick....get help...i feel bad for the poor chap
2006-07-13 12:25:14 · answer #9 · answered by chaand5 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah you should
2006-07-13 12:24:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋