Been dating 2 1/2 yrs. He and I canceled our subscription to this dating site. A couple of days ago I told my gf of this site and she too can meet someone so she opened up a account - I found my bf's profile active - so I confronted him his response was - I only got the 3-free days pass to see if you were on the site. What should I think?
2006-07-13 05:20:10 · 8 answers · asked by Leila 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Leila, we women put a lot of emotion into a relationship, especially after 2+ years. Hate to tell ya....but he's been on the whole time. I was online for 2 years.....got off for 1 1/2 years to pursue a relationship which didn't work out. Got back on three months ago. At least 40% are the same guys from 4 years ago.....I'm thinking, wow, they haven't settled down yet? It's fascinating to meet new people, especially online. So I think the brothers are getting hooked with being able to meet so many. Drop him and find someone who really appreciates you....for real! You should be able to tell in 1 - 6 months if a guy is real or not. They can only pretend for so long.....then the real man has to stand up and out. The first few months they are trying to impress.....then when they think they got you, they start being themselves. (Of course, this is the immature ones!)
2006-07-13 05:41:48 · answer #1 · answered by starnet88 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but that seems like a lie, if you guys have been together for 2 1/2 years then you guys should definitely have better communication than that. Why would he not just ask you? I think he is hiding something, if I were you I would look a little deeper into this, but prepare yourself that you might not like what you find! Good luck!
2006-07-13 05:23:52 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My personal opinion is he has probably been on there for a while, If you guys have been talkin for 2 1/2 yrs though surely he wouldn't be cheating on you though. Well that's my opinion.
2006-07-13 06:57:00 · answer #3 · answered by nana_14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is lying and has been on the site the hole time.
2006-07-13 05:22:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think paying money to meet people is WRONG!
2006-07-13 05:37:50 · answer #5 · answered by tiger_skratch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he could of been doing what he said-he was probably curious if you did take yours off. he's just checkin up-i think
2006-07-13 05:24:49 · answer #6 · answered by RACHAEL R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't date him it could be dangerous
2006-07-13 05:23:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
still playing games.
2006-07-13 05:22:47 · answer #8 · answered by firewall 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋