Well, my friends are very familiar with the physical relations called "sex" but I'm not going to do that till I'm good and married. But there are all these horror stories of things happening. I just need to know that way I won't like freak out on my first time ( aka honeymoon). I'm one of those people that freakout and think things are worse than they seem. So, what's the real truth?
Girls only answer please...
2006-07-13 04:40:33 · 17 answers · asked by VandyViolin09 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry, I had to get in here...hope you don't mind!
Well congratulations on taking your time and waiting for marriage, I wish you luck in both! As far as pain, IF you and your partner take your time, it can be very easy and pleasurable even for a first time. The secret is easing into what ever stage your trying and moving slow til it becomes comfortable for you (as the women), remember, it can be painful for him also...so just ease into it and you'll be fine!
2006-07-13 04:45:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well well well.....i can say alot about this but i will make it short. I have been with every race and i have to say.....black guys are the biggest...(to clear the rumors)..so it depends on the size of their penis and how rough they like it. My husband now, we have been married for almost 2 years, haven sex at least once a day and it still hurts me because hes big. I was with black guy before my husband and it was VERY painful!!!!! So take it easy, relax, and tell him to be gentle.
2006-07-13 04:51:54 · answer #2 · answered by blueeyedbabe1986 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't want to sound weird or anything, but you should experiment with yourself. Get to know your own body. Once you do that, you probably wont be so tense when it comes to that time and it will be just fine. But everybody is different, it doesn't always hurt or feel uncomfortable the first time.
2006-07-13 04:45:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww hun don't worry. it shouldn't hurt nearly as much as people say. when you find that right guy-- you'll feel comfortable-- it'll feel right. he'll be gentle and like i said, it'll just feel right.
don't worry too much and DON'T freak out-- lol. you'll be fine hun-- really don't worry. plus, i'm sure you got a little ways to go before that time, so you got all the time to prepare. >:) you'll be just fine-- i promise. just DON'T listen to all those horror stories-- my experience didn't hurt very much @ all-- i would describe with a little pain, but after some time, you'll start to enjoy it. it'll feel good-- and like i said before, when you're with that right guy-- everything will just feel right.
2006-07-13 04:46:13 · answer #4 · answered by jetters007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should not have any pain- something is WAY wrong if he doesn't care if you're alright or not... Marriage is for life right? so don't marry someone who doesn't notice how your doing-- this is just the tip of the iceberg deary,
It should be smooth and pleasurable, use a lube, go to an adult store and stock up on goodies. enjoy!
2006-07-13 04:47:44 · answer #5 · answered by omnimog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are still a VIRGIN, keep it that way!!!
Don't do anything foolish. Do Not let yourself loose to some wortless guy. When the right guy comes along and you married to him, there won't be a problem if he is nice and considerate. Throwing yourself to some looser then you'll regret especially if he is getting the eggs free, why would he wants the chicken.
Hope you make the right decision.
MIna
2006-07-13 04:46:40 · answer #6 · answered by mina 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Sex wil come natural when it's with somebody u truly truly love as u made it clear to all........it will only hurt if both of u r in a rush to get down and dirty.however, sex is supposed to feel good and will if u work n harmony with one another
2006-07-13 04:44:50 · answer #7 · answered by briidun 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hon, the answer is different for every woman. I was lucky because I didnt experience any pain AT ALL. I enjoyed it from start to finish. You can expect pain, but you wont know what you get until your in the act.
2006-07-13 04:42:55 · answer #8 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i'm glad that you're going to wait till you're honeymoon.So congrats on that one.It dosen't really hurt all that bad.and nothing is going to go wrong.so forget all the horror stories you heard.
and have fun on you're honeymoon when ever you get married.
2006-07-13 04:45:57 · answer #9 · answered by Angel sent from heaven 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sex only hurts if your a virgin or if his penis is really large, but at the same time its pleasurable. The worst thing that could happen is you'll get pregnant or he didn't last as long as you thought.
LOVE GODDESS
2006-07-13 04:45:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋