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hey, whats the best strategy for meeting girls in bars? Lookin for more then a hookup, but wouldnt turn that down

2006-07-13 04:35:58 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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The best way to pick up a girl in a bar is to make her laugh right away. If she is at a bar, she is looking to have fun... so show her some fun.
After chatting and laughing for awhile, use the line
"So where do you want to go on our first date?"

2006-07-13 04:39:04 · answer #1 · answered by Sheriff Liz 3 · 6 1

Well be charming and not sleezy. Also make sure that she looks classy and sophistocated and can actually hold a conversation(dont just try to talk to some random party girl), if she seems one way but is only after one thing and you didnt expect that, then try talking to another girl. Offer to buy her (THE one) a drink or 2 (no more than that). Strike up a conversation and see what the two of you have in common etc. Be interested in what she has to say and dont let your eyes wander (like if a girl passes by in a really hoochie outfit DONT LOOK!). And dont go to her house and dont let her come to your house either that night, just get her number and keep contact with her. Try to schedule a time when the 2 of you can go out on a date to dinner during those calls. If everything works out then you will have yourself a girlfriend eventually. Good luck lover boy!

2006-07-13 04:41:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

executed that and were given the T blouse. Fell in Love with Thai woman on 1st vacation and for 3 years help help her and her family individuals in ordinary words to be sure that she became seeing different adult men. I felt harm and betrayed yet then talked concerning the mild - as I had such multiple Thai friends and that i have continually been open and straightforward with them . the girls to no longer favor to artwork in Bars for a lengthy time period - they want a husband, in the adventure that they have got not were given one already , and they intend to make as a lot funds as instantly as achievable as they could , also the Bars placed stress on the girls to have such multiple woman beverages a month and such multiple bar fines a month - in the adventure that they do no longer attain those aims - they're sacked and the bar get a clean woman. once you've a Bar lady friend that you do not favor to bypass with different consumers then you come to an contract with Bar proprietor, who will make efficient she does no longer bypass customer in ordinary words chats them up. you assert you're a strong searching guy ? no longer strong element as they imagine you're a butterfly and on the accurate of the day seems at the instantaneous are not each and everything. "its as a lot as you " what you do at the same time with your existence yet I propose yo be careful at the same time with you funds.

2016-11-06 07:54:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

If you're looking for something more than a hookup then stop looking. Meaningful relationships find their way to you when you least expect it. So stop trying so hard. Instead of going out to "pick up chicks" why don't you just go out to "have a good time" and see what happens. Girls tend to be strange creatures. It didn't matter how good looking you were, if I felt you were out specifically to "pick up" girls... I'd instantly reject you. So just have fun, and let things happen naturally.

2006-07-13 04:40:17 · answer #4 · answered by rocknrobin21 4 · 0 0

Bars are nothing more than a meat market. Most women go there to find a peace, just like men believe it or not. If you are looking for more, you need to look alsewhere. If you are looking to get laid, and dont have very high standards, the bar is your haven!

2006-07-13 04:43:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Just go over to the girl introduce yourself and ask if you can sit down and first make sure she isn't there with her boyfriend. Then just talk with her get to know her and let her get to know you so she knows you're looking for more than a hook up. Then ask for her number and see if she's like to go to dinner or the movies with you sometime. All you have to do is be a nice guy it'll work.

2006-07-13 04:40:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

find a girl with a bullseye on her back. and why would u wanna turn a hoe into a house wife. if u take a girl home from a bar how many other guys did just as easily

2006-07-13 04:39:02 · answer #7 · answered by rodie5582 4 · 0 0

why? do you want to meet an alcoholic tramp...or a one nighter, that's what most of the girls who leave with a new guy are. the ones who tend to ignore the guys are the ones who might be worth a damn and you would have to meet them outside of the bar environment in order to get their attention.....better off to look else where for miss right.

2006-07-13 04:40:37 · answer #8 · answered by me 5 · 0 0

Good luck with that! Bars are not the greatest places to pick up girls. I'm a bartender and have seen it all. Be careful!

2006-07-13 04:38:29 · answer #9 · answered by Brina 4 · 0 0

Smile, smile alot. Don't appear to be alone.... just mingling. Most women are looking for happiness, if you are smiling you seem happy and maybe then you could make them happy. Worth a try!!! Best wishes

2006-07-13 04:39:29 · answer #10 · answered by colorist 6 · 1 0

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