n i wrote him a long e-mail about how sorry i was and how i wanted things to work out...he was in the wrong but failed to realize it.... so i asked if he was thinking about ending our relationship n he said he thought about it. so i asked him to come over after work so that we can talk about it n he said he can't(any other time he would be quick to be over here) so i told him forget it...
my question is: do you think he will come back HONESTLY!!!???
oh the arugument was about a girl leaving him messages and him writing back to her.
serious answers only thank you
2006-07-13 04:33:39 · 9 answers · asked by pisces_dreamer06 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, how old are you guys?
Secondly, arguments happen between all couples. You have to know how to communicate with each other and resolve it without resorting to name calling and mean things. Make sure you're just talking about the issue at hand, him talking to the other girl. Tell him that you care about him, and you got jealous, be HONEST. Tell him that's the reason you got upset (if it is). Ask him to seriously just talk with you about it and to tell you the truth. Jealousy SUCKS, I know! However, you have to have trust in your relationship or it will never work. Talk with him about why you should trust him, and about this girl - if she's just a friend or more. Most likely, she's just a friend.
He'll cool off, and you guys will have time to talk. Usually people need some time to think about things so they can talk through it instead of argue or yell or get mad.
Good luck!
2006-07-13 04:40:19 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs. Brooks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing how did you find out he was texting a girl? Did you look through his things? Girl you sound like me back in the day but STOP doing that for real. When you go looking for something you are going to find something but you may interpret it wrong because honestly its none of your business (unless its just outright and very self explainatory). Don't be one of those females that has to look through a man's things, obviously you don't trust him and that needs to be worked on because you can't be doing that with your husband do you.
Secondly, he think he is slick but he is trying to reverse everything on you. Don't let him do that if you have to talk to him like he retarded do it so you can get answers and communicate like adults. I know its confusing but since you already brought up the stuff you deserve an answer no matter how you find out about it. So don't let him slide and then go from there.
I hope this helps
2006-07-13 05:20:48 · answer #2 · answered by rach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Immediately assuming he was in the wrong is a mistake. Is it possible you over-reacted? It largely depends on the context of their relationship. Did he hide it from you?
Why jump to the conclusion to "end it?" That leads me to believe it ain't all roses to begin with.
And if you stick with him, avoid the lengthy emails next time and have a conversation - a lot gets lost in the written word, especially in an email. Pick up the phone or better yet, just set a time to meet with no discussion prior and have it all out in person.
2006-07-13 04:39:31 · answer #3 · answered by Guyute411 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the subsequent time you get data or witness it, you want to call the police rather of CPS and tell them it really is an emergency of kin abuse on a baby. enable them know the issue and that you're prepared to step in and promises the little ones a house if necessary so that they don't finally end up in foster care. record conversations like you defined without your sister understanding about it as data. Get a criminal specialist in case you want to and take custodity of those little ones. It is purely not a fantastically element to do yet you should do it for the sake of those little ones.
2016-11-01 23:54:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
uumm,pretty tough to decide coz u didn't write down wat was his reply when u confronted him but i'll tell u something.let him feel that u r the one in control not the other war around coz he's the one who is in wrong.don't make him feel that u r weak without him coz if u made up each time he'll do this again he will know that he doesn't have to say sorry coz u r not waiting for it from him.On the other hand,show him that u really appreciate and love him and it won't be easy to let go of him.pretty tough equation,huh!
2006-07-13 04:43:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is that his communication violates your relationship. Otherwise you 2 wouldn't have been fighting about it. So, if he's in fact communicating with another woman or women behind your back then wise up and move on. Its called disrespect...don't allow it.
2006-07-13 04:55:00 · answer #6 · answered by oneluv66366 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this girl is leaving him messages and he is replying, then he is obviously interested in her... if he doesn't want to resolve the issue.. then he is choosing her. Either that or you are just being too jealous and controlling.
Good luck.
2006-07-13 04:37:23 · answer #7 · answered by Sheriff Liz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him, don't hurt yourself further. If he is flirting with another girl, it will not stop. You deserve an honest man, you will find him.
2006-07-13 04:38:49 · answer #8 · answered by Kaytee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just chill please. it is k. i guess u r just too hypered. he is ur bf. he wil understand u. don't worry. he will understand ur posessiveness for him. in fact give him time to chill. u also need to have patience. i wil pray for u.
al the best!!
2006-07-13 04:39:26 · answer #9 · answered by cutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋