ARE ALL WOMEN LICHES or leeches?

Question

Perhaps there is a reason women live longer than men. A man or a good man will do anything for his woman and I have noticed many or all women seek men like this for stability or protection. After a term of months or years the woman seems to become accustomed to a life style that she here self could never have had and becomes a demanding tyrant. I have heard many men say their wives complain will having sex, talk about losing your hardness and or esteem or will to live.

Have these men and to some degree myself by seeking to be the end all or provider enabled these women to become in essence greedy and lazy. Rather than content and or happy that the gift of protection and stability in the long term creates a greedy non-satisfiable lust for money?

If this is so what should be the nature of the relationship or what type of woman is there that will not fall into this greed paradigm.

AS A SIDE question how does one survive a partner having an abortion against you will. Are their physical side effects, I know about the mental.

Answer 1

No, all women aren't leeches.
I value love... much more importantly than any other benefits.
Your question brings to mind something my nephew stated>>> these days, the younger women only want what they can get out of a man (materialism) & that he'd rather have an older/mature woman because of it.
Many children have been & are being raised without teachings/examples of wholesome character.
Women crying a lot (stress relief) is one of the reasons why they live longer, & women talking a lot is another... getting things off their chests (stress relief)... not worrying due to feeling secure is also stress relief.
The following isn't an attack, isn't criticism, but is for the purpose of hopefully helping others gain deeper understanding>>>
Generally speaking... men place more value on sexual love than women... & women place more value on emotional love than men.
When a wife complains while having sex, it's sometimes because the husband isn't doing his job>>> of loving his wife the way she feels the strongest need>>> emotionally.
(she's liable to talk about the weather during sex... if her emotions aren't satisfied before having sex).
Talking during sex is sometimes the woman's way of expressing that she's feeling used sexually... women do tend to feel used if there's not been enough emotional love given to her before sex.
They generally either talk in order to escape the feeling of being used... or it's the woman's way of hinting to her husband that she needs him to give her emotional love (verbally)...or because her partner is boring her sexually.
There are some men whose main focus is on being provider (material-wise) & they may be neglecting to provide their wives emotional needs... but there are also some women whose main focus is to gain materialism.
The kind of women who wouldn't fall into the greed category, would be those who honestly place higher value on loving others more than on materialism.
As for the side question... abortion isn't an experience I'm familiar with... but I certainly do think it would be a heart-breaking, soul-wrenching experience to go thru.
I had a DNC (health purposes) & know that there can be physical side effects (dangers)... if they don't clean the womb out right, there could be dangerous infections, possibly even cancer could set up & fester inside.
As for the relationship-survival part (continuing to have a relationship)... it boils down to a choice (a determination)>>> to continue or not to continue.

Answer 2

Many women are vary hard working even the ones who stay home. That being said there are many advances that have made a stay at home womans job easier over the years while many men still slave away at very strenuous work. Not all people fit into a catagory though. My husband while having the ability to make more money than me has spent time staying home with the kids while I worked. And don't tell him I said so but for the most part he did better then I do :) I, however, am not greedy, sometimes such as now lazy. As for the abortion thing I think a lot of people hide behind it's the womans body it's her choice. The man doesn't get a choice which to me doesn't seem right. Honestly if I were a guy I couldn't stay with someone who ignored my wishes on something so important.

Answer 3

Wow - you've been slammed lately, haven't you ? Gotta say that you're a little bit narrow in your evaluation of women in general and a little blind in your evaluation of men as well. Take off your blinders of pain and reexamine the genders in a more objective manner and I think you will find that both genders run the gamut from bastards and bitches to good, caring, supportive people. No gender has a corner on any market.

There is no paradigm for what a relationship should or should not be. Not anymore, anyway. Any good relationship draws on the strengths of those involved and compensates for each other's weaknesses. Things of which you speak, like greed and control, are weaknesses of both genders.

As for abortions, pretty highly personal. If your female partner determined she was not ready to be a mother and thus chose not to bring a child into this world at this time, then you have to respect, even if you do not agree, her choice. Unless you were ready to take care of a baby all by yourself from infancy to adulthood, you really don't have a say. Really, even then you do't because the law would force both of you to care for this child.

Finally, sex between two people brings with it a responsibility. If one of you wants a child and the other doesn't then there should be precautions taken against gettng pregnant. It takes two to say "yes" but only one to say "no."

You can "survive" her abortion. Your relationship, however, may well not survive your attitude and what you will consider in life.

Answer 4

Have you ever been in a relationship? Do you know every woman on earth? Women want more than "protection and stability"! And protection isn't even in the top 10 of things we want! Stop asking stupid questions and get a clue.

As to the abortion thing - don't get a girl pregnant if she doesn't want a kid! Condoms! Where was your "PROTECTION" on that one buddy? And yes, there can be physical side affects as well as emotional. Talk to a doctor! Maybe go to the proctologist and see if he can locate your head!

Answer 5

Sounds like you're doing a slow burn because you're angry that your wife had an abortion without your input. I empathize with the feeling. It should be a mutual decision, but ultimately, it's her body.I suggest counseling to get this past this. That was your child and you are grieving for it by expressing anger at how woman and men are. This is NOT the nature of relationship between a man and a woman. If your wife won't go, go alone. Good luck, dear.

Answer 6

I think that often time men put themselves into this position. if there where reestablished terms in the relationship from the beginning you would find far less problems later in the relationship. Sadly most men get caught up in a codependent relationship where they feel that the other half of the relationship is not pulling their weight. Most times this is because the guy gave in to much at the very beginning, and allowed these actions to take place. It’s much easier to never give someone something, then to give them something and then later try to take it back. If you know you want your partner to contribute in the relationship don’t make an exception, early on because you will resent that person later.

Answer 7

Actually I've heard of a recent study where men that are married live longer thank those that remain single. Why? Because they have a wife that looks after them, makes them go to the doctor when they're sick, and loves them. Women make a lot of sacrifices when they get married and many times there's little appreciation for it. Perhaps the women that you are speaking of haven't treated their men well, but before making a blanket statement it's important to think about how men treat women too. It's a two-way street.

Answer 8

I'm not going to read all that bull...but I can already tell that you are stereotyping like crazy! Get over yourself and what you THINK you KNOW about women!

I am not a leech...in fact...I supported my fiance 100% the first 2 years we were together. I knew when he finished college that we would equally contribute which, by the way, we are doing right now! I work just as hard as he does and there are MANY other women out there that do the same.

Answer 9

Wow! Your deep dude. NO, all women are not leeches. Many woman (especially myself) are extremly self-sufficent and would prefer to be so. I dont need or desire a man to 'take care of me' because no man will or can ever take care of me the way I can and will do it for myself. Lust for money is disgusting and will only lead to downfalls in the end. I dislike men that go all out to please a woman because no woman should be so dam complicated that a man would have to go allll out to please her. Life is tooo short for bullsh*t and I have low low tolerance for bull. As for your abortion question, unfortunately every human is entitled to do what they want with their own bodies. People need to really know the persons they decided to have sex with and have upfront conversations about the possiblitiy of an unplanned pregnancy. BIRTH CONTROL rules and solves these problems. HONESTY & COMMUNICATION solves all the other ones you mentioned. B' well.

Answer 10

Get over yourself. All you men are not that great. And more women than you think are perfectly capable of leading their own lives. Oh, and just as many men mooch off of women too.

The abortion was not against your will. It wasn't your decision to begin with. It was hers. So learn how to deal and get over it. When the time is right for BOTH of you, you'll have a baby.