Okay my boy friend and I have been together for a couple months we got together at school. Recently I moved to a new home and I changed schools. I've been emailing him and I know this is kind of bad but I I figured out his password to e-mails. Every time I e-mail him a couple days later I his e-mails and he's checked his e-mails and hasn't returned mine. What do I do?
2006-07-13 04:23:39 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Education & Reference ➔ Other - Education
First call him and ask if he got your e-mails,if he lies break it off,but keep the code to make his life a living hell.
2006-07-13 04:30:53 · answer #1 · answered by ♀Mañana♥^¥ ♪☺↕♫©⢠size= 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Look, maybe you're making something over nothing. I bet if you ask him why he isn't replying he'll just just that he just doesn't want to, not that he doesn't want to be with you anymore, just that he doesn't want to write back. Is that your only way of communication with him, if it is, then there's something wrong with the situation entirely. In my relationship my man sends me emails all the time, I hardly write back~~only if he starts crying about it, not because I like him less than I did before, just cause it's really not that big of a deal. Get over the lil "he's not trying everything to show me he loves me crap" and just live life, don't stress over the lil situations and focus on the main picture of being happy in a relationship. Would you rather loose him or just cry over a few unresponded emails?
2006-07-13 11:38:46 · answer #2 · answered by fluff~out 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he busy or Is he not as committed/interested as you are in him? Alright he atleast checks ur emails. You are out of sight so out of his mind? Should all that bother you so much. May be its bothering you coz i guess you dont want to lose him as he is been a good friend.
For a while you can write reminder emails. Wait and watch.
If things work out your way then good, in case if things dont work out your way then accept the fact. Keep cool. If he is yours he will definately come to you. If he is not then you must not waste your precious time. Look after your self & take care.
2006-07-13 11:38:37 · answer #3 · answered by ddivvi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. It is not only bad that you are checking his emails it is a little obsessive and you need to have more respect for yourself than this. The quickest way to lose a guy is to appear desparate and needy. If he knows he has you around his little finger he loses interest faster than you can say I love you. MOVE ON. If it's meant to be he will pursue you if not then you are both better off.
2006-07-13 11:28:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, it's not cool that you invaded this guy's privacy, so let's just say "shame on you" for that and move on. He's obviously blowing you off, so don't waste any more of your time sending E-mails to him. He doesn't even respect you enough to say how he really feels to you, so kick his sorry @$$ to the curb and concentrate on making new friends at your new school and in your new neighborhood.
2006-07-13 11:30:49 · answer #5 · answered by sarge927 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He seems to be avoiding you for a reason, maybe it is because he cant handle a long term relationship or maybe he just doesnt like to take the tie to write an email. maybe you should call him and ask y he hasnt returned your emails. That one little question and its answer might give you alot of insight into his view of your relationship
2006-07-13 11:29:07 · answer #6 · answered by jodie t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does he call you, maybe he prefers to hear your voice and finds it hard to relate via computer.
PS if his only problem is lack of communication than he is a normal guy, but hacking into his e-mail account....
at least inform the guy so if by chance this doesn't work out he doesn't have to worry about identity thief
2006-07-13 11:32:42 · answer #7 · answered by Tom j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should keep your distance. Sorry that he is not treating you the way you wish, but it jus seems like he is not ready for a serious relationship as is one with distance.
Be in peace and don't look at his e-mail things.
Do something else and think of somethings else.
2006-07-13 11:29:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
E-mails just sux
You must go where he lives and speak with him in 4 eyes
2006-07-13 11:27:57 · answer #9 · answered by sillyboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write him a letter asking him why he hasn't returned your emails and then give him a week or so and give him a how are you what you doing call?
2006-07-13 11:30:03 · answer #10 · answered by shane b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋