2006-07-13 04:20:52 · 11 answers · asked by cpalme1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Relax as best you can and enjoy the planning process! All of it is over before you even know it so sit back and take as much of it in as you possibly can! Also expect something to go wrong, you will NOT get through the day with everything going exactly to a "t" as you planned it so realize that now. Don't sweat the small stuff, look at the bigger picture and think of all the wonderful things to come!
2006-07-13 04:39:31 · answer #1 · answered by jessicamarie0572 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anxious as in what? Second thoughts?
Both of you do this and I guarantee the answer will reveal itself.
Sit down together across the table with paper and pen. (PEN not pencil) No erasing. No talking. No glacing at the paper.
This is like a school exam, don't share notes while the test is in progress. Take all the time necessary to think of every detail. Why? Take time because once you commit to a marriage it will take forever to split and divorce.
Each write down all the things you want to do before you get married. Then write down all the things you want to do after you get married. Then compare the lists.
Put down first thoughts and be graphic and explicit.
The less you have written down the greater the chances you both are not prepared for marriage. Things you find in common show compatibility. Things you both differ with are better revealed at this table now.
It's OK to postpone or cancel the marriage. It's disheartening, but all this is better called right now.
2006-07-13 11:38:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
While it is common to have some amount of anxiety prior to tying the knot, I'd be a bit concerned that you are 'extremely' anxious. I would try and assess what the source of my anxiety is. Perhaps you aren't really ready to make a lifelong commitment to each other.
2006-07-13 11:25:09 · answer #3 · answered by Bors 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not be nervous if you chosen the right person to spend your life with.
I was extremely calm leading up to my wedding, and especially calm on the day of. I just felt so happy that I was marrying my hubby - he is the best!
If you feel nervous, I don't think you're marrying the right person.
2006-07-13 11:39:34 · answer #4 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Openly discuss what you are nervous about. Don't worry. It is natural to get a little nervous. If you both are terrified, it might be a clue that something is wrong and needs to be worked out. Good luck.
2006-07-13 11:24:26 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. Hendricks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was nervous, too. Just try to relax and enjoy the time, because it's over before you know it. Our wedding day was so much fun, but it was over sooo fast. Enjoy every minute of it now.
2006-07-13 11:27:50 · answer #6 · answered by SweetPea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do not think about getting married. Think about sharing a life together. Good luck!
2006-07-13 11:23:46 · answer #7 · answered by robmarcy13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of jitters are they?? If you are just nervous, excited, happy, scared.....don't worry about it. That's normal.
Have a good life.
2006-07-13 11:25:49 · answer #8 · answered by Traci S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax dear. Try to arrange a day at the spa.
2006-07-13 11:23:36 · answer #9 · answered by kmichelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have an affair then forget about getting married.
It worked for me.
2006-07-13 11:24:58 · answer #10 · answered by Roy.L.Mareen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋