guys, why are you so scared to fall in love and trust a girl?
2006-07-13 04:16:34 · 27 answers · asked by Jenifer O 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
being hurt
2006-07-13 04:17:44 · answer #1 · answered by diablo0470 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that this is a major misconception. Dudes aren't really anymore scared to commit than females are. Guy's are just put in the position to be the leader or pursuer of the relationship. So obviously if the dude goes to far, he scares the girl away. If he doesn't go fast enough, then all the girls start saying guys generally are scared to commit. Do the math.
When it comes to love. Well... It is because gents have trouble expressing themselves, not actually feeling in love with the feme. So this is another misconception brought on by communication.
If there is a guy you actually scared of falling in love, that is his issue, not guys as a whole. I have had the same problem with my X also. Shite happens.
2006-07-13 11:58:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good man will be concerned over his future and be looking to make a family some day. So the good men will think with their brain before their penis. Now the brain will tell them to look out for these things:
(1) Liars (bimbos pretend to be Ms. Virtue when they find Mr. Bill Payer)
(2) Cheaters (are you being responsible or just sleezing around -- most men that have women that cheat had a reputation before they met)
(3) Selfish Lovers (The ones where your work your butt off all day and she's always 2 tired for loving -- these girls tend to be cheaters too)
(4) Selfish Nags (The ones were you work your *** off all day just to come home to a filthy house, dirty kids, and get nagged that you don't do enough dishes)
The good news here is you may be hanging around with the right men.
The little boys will just pump you and dump you!
2006-07-13 11:30:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOVE and TRUST. You speak as if its the responsibility of guys to BUILD. Being SCARED is natural, and as we (BOTH SEXES) may not like to admit, we all long for a LOVING and at least UNDERSTANDING LIFE PARTNER, but we require some other qualities more than LOVE and TRUST - the result, a bigger picture.
2006-07-13 12:29:57 · answer #4 · answered by Femi T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well we also have feelings, we dont wanna get hurt just like you dont. And as far as the trust issue goes that could be something you are doing for us not to trust you or could be something thats happened in a previous relationship thats holding us back.
2006-07-13 11:19:13 · answer #5 · answered by george 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because women are irrational. They love you one day and the next they want some retard who smiled at them in line at the grocery store.
When women know who they are, then it's time to think about settling. Unfortunately, most women never figure out who they are until well into their 30's.
2006-07-13 11:20:04 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. O'Clock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not scared of falling in love in general, im scared in falling in love w/ a girl whos gona break my heart.. trust me when i find one that i tihnk is right, she'll have all my love and all my trust.. thats what i tihnk sofar... if anyones scared to fall in love in general, its probably because they foudn the one they thought was perfect, then got screwed over.. i dunno its an iffy subject.. but they way i see it, if a guy tihnks shes right then he should go for it.. to find love you must surrender to it
2006-07-13 11:20:41 · answer #7 · answered by itschris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys are but those that are probably had a bad experience and either are fed up with it or are taking their time and being hesitant to jump into something again
2006-07-13 11:18:24 · answer #8 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not that we are scared its that we are careful, look at me my last two girlfreinds cheated on me, and i havent dated for mabye a year eventhough i could have a girlfreind. most of us may just be waiting for the right one.
thats what im doing because i dont wont to be hurt, so im being careful.
2006-07-13 11:22:40 · answer #9 · answered by chef 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was scared, but I discovered loving and letting go gave me more love. So you get what you give.
2006-07-13 11:20:34 · answer #10 · answered by sonysrai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not scared to fal in love and trust them in fact i might have to much trust
2006-07-13 11:21:03 · answer #11 · answered by chris k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋