is a scenario: If one of your best female friends had a one night stand with a guy and blamed it on being drunk that night, you ladies would laugh it off and see it as joke. But if there was a ladie that you did not know or hated that had a One Night Stand, you would autmatically label her as a S L U T OR WHORE. Where does this double standard come from. And Ladies, don't lie, I know that you probably have been in a situation like this were you saw it as a joke around your bestfriends.
2006-07-13 04:08:22 · 19 answers · asked by rick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Never done that or said anything like that. I think it's because we need to be supportive of our friends and laugh it off as a joke. I personally don't have many girl friends. I have many guy friends... as far as I am concerned, I can't trust girls. Hey, that's just the way women function... most like to backstab and are fake to your faces.
2006-07-13 04:14:25 · answer #1 · answered by bonjovifan 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, that maybe true, but one thing needs to be considered here. A friend that has a over night stand, being that she is my friend I would know why she really had this over night stand. But, on the other hand the other woman that I really don't know, (and I have heard somethings about her) or maybe I don't like her. I think the two are very different. You see the friend I know what her motives are and I would know from my friend whether or not she is sincere on her story. Now, the other woman I don't know but may know of her. She could have a alternative reasons for her situation. I also am allowed to make my own decision what I may think of her. She could be someone I may not like, but then there must be a reason why I don't in the first place. As for you men, you make your own judgment and opinions on another mans motive, so do we women. Same thing! Women have six sense on what another woman motives may be, as you men do, too.
2006-07-13 05:06:24 · answer #2 · answered by Seeker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never call any women a sl*t or a whore. I hate both those labels. Women are just as free to have sex as men are in my world. I find women attack with those names when the topic is cheating or adultery. I think its easier for most people to call the other women a sl*t or a whore rather than think of their man as the only one at fault. Almost like she is such a whore that she seduced my husband/bf.
2006-07-13 04:14:53 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some females/women see contained in the heart of people. they purely do not look on the exterior. like the keeping says, The eyes are the living house windows to the soul. some human beings will in ordinary words look on the exterior yet that shows how snobby they're.
2016-11-06 07:51:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry ... I would never think it was a joke if my one of my best friends slept with my BF .. I wouldn't be their friend anymore and I wouldn't have a BF either ... !
I'm not sure of any girl that would be ok with that ... The only scenario that it would be acceptable is if I asked her to join us in the bedroom and she said yes ... !
2006-07-13 04:15:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never labelled anybody as a s l u t or a whore. It's each person's personal matter how they live their life and who they sleep with.
2006-07-13 04:16:42 · answer #6 · answered by Kaytee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right i wrote someday regarding how many had one night stand that i have had one and a lady wrote to me saying i was a whore.
I didn't care because who knows what she is in real life.
2006-07-13 05:51:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called rationalization. We men do it too.
Like...you have a buddy who gets a gf. All of a sudden, he's never around, he never plans anything, and if he does, she's in tow, even on guy's night.
You and your buddies call him whipped, etc.
Suddenly, there's a fine lil piece in your life, and you exhibit the same behavior. When your buddies call you on it, you say something like "it's different", "you don't understand our love", etc.
All people do this, we're retards.
2006-07-13 04:12:14 · answer #8 · answered by Mr. O'Clock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, I always let my girls know the truth! If yuh did something wrong own up to it! Besides nothings wrong wid a one night stand as long as you use condoms. Come on, where are you living girl? 2k6 hello??
2006-07-13 04:19:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah you tend to laugh stuff like that off, but in all actuality if you feel your friend acted in a slutty or whorish way then that's your opinion. Can't nothing change that.
2006-07-13 04:13:24 · answer #10 · answered by pooh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋