when we are obssesed with any thin whether it is cars or real estate,gold or somethin that we are obssesd with we never get that whydoes this happen?
2006-07-13 03:53:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
We get it sometimes, and then we no longer desperately want it.
2006-07-13 03:56:27 · answer #1 · answered by scruffy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi
Im honored to answer ur question. Actually to say it happens very often to me too. That too, if its positive I seek it doesnt happen, but if its anything negative it happens horrifyingly.
But its destiny, we feel like that thats it. Its matter of the attitude and positive thinking which one lacks when depressed or not have self confidence. Also it happens when we expect more of something or someone. We share our love and care and others dont have time to respond. We should stop expecting and do things without any expections.
Try this , it helps and my sincere advice is dont ever get obbessed to anything or anyone, as everything in this universe has an expiry date, even relationships, we cant blame any. The one whos ever with us is our own soul and God...Cheer Up
Bye
2006-07-14 01:02:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its like looking for love all the time... stop looking and it'll most probably happen when u least expect it but as for lets say getting a car... you have to work for it ! If you want something you have to put some effort into it and not expect everything to be served to you on a silver platter just because you WANT it DESPERATLY
2006-07-13 10:56:49 · answer #3 · answered by legal_secretary_in_montreal2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how difficult the desired object is for a person to achieve...
If desires are realistic, then they get achieved quicker. But after an object is achieved, the human mind want's more...
So one tends to remember only what is not achieved while it forgets the zillions of things already achieved...
2006-07-13 11:00:28 · answer #4 · answered by Wrobinhood 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The trick is to remove all your wants and desires and instead focus on your needs. That way, anything else that comes your way will be a bonus!
2006-07-13 10:58:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u wont get it at dt very moment. hvnt u heard "chahe jo tumhe pure dl se milta he wo mushkl se" ,don b pesimstc u'l surely get it but u'v 2 strugl 4 it. shakespeare said- if u get sumthing widout mch of struggle n efforts, then u wont value that thing.
its not only d thngs its also d ppl wen u need it isnt there whatevr it may b.
rarer it hapns bt it does-"jo socha tha wo mila nahi,jo milega wo socha na tha".
thats 1 of d realms of life.
2006-07-13 12:15:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is simple we want what we dont have, as soon as we get it, we no longer want for it.
the same reason you find something in the last place you look for it.
If you really want this bike, you want it want it want it, you get it for Christmas, now that you HAVE it, you no longer WANT it.
2006-07-13 10:59:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all, it isn't all about getting what you want, it's about having what you need.
2006-07-13 10:57:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats why i make it a point never to obsess over anything. its not healthy anyway.
2006-07-13 10:56:44 · answer #9 · answered by Bean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is the nature of humans to want that which they cannot recieve.
humans are never satisfied
2006-07-13 10:56:31 · answer #10 · answered by somepaliguy27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋