So there's a guy I really like, and we used to work together. He quit now I realize how much I really do like him, and I work with his best friends sister. Soooooooo I really want him, like really really really want him bad. How do I get someone who generally doesn't like pretty girls, lol. Which makes it even weirder! Apparentley the guy doesn't like pretty girls, but I think we'd be great together. He's funny, charming, sensitive, greaaat personality and fun. I have the same! So should I just flat out have her tell him cause that's juvinelle...or should I get his phone # from her which would be like stalkerish? WTF do I do?
2006-07-13 03:40:59 · 36 answers · asked by Killer Bee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depends on what type of girl he likes. You already said he doesnt like pretty girls so, my thing is if you tell him he may be more stand-offish than he is now. So, heres what Id do:
If you were friends, like kool friends more than jus saying hi, get his number, call him and tell him that youre jus callin to see how hes doing.
If that works, and hes kool, suggest gettin together sometime, like out for drinks or something. If this works, jus stay kool, make it real casual, dont really show him that you want him baaaad. Get to know him.
Or if you dont like that method, find out where he hangs, pretend to run in to him. Dont go with a whole group of girls because some guys are intimidated by that. Chances are too, if hes intimidated by pretty women, he'll be intimidated by more than one together.
Anyway, if you need anymore tips email me. And besides I need more details about this guy, so I can better give you advice.
2006-07-13 03:48:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why not plot a scheme to take his soul? Maybe he wouldn't be the same person with you. You live in a fantasy world. He would have shown interest by now. Maybe you don't measure up to his standards, or he doesn't feel he measures up to yours. For a million reasons he may believe there is incompatibility. Love isn't something you can force or plot, but love is a two way street.
When it goes right, it's really nice.
I'm sure the word is out. He's not ignorant. If he has interest let him call.
2006-07-13 03:50:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, i would just ask him if he would like to go have lunch with you.
Don't leave it up to some one else, to pass a message on,
You can also send him a card, that says miss your funny, charming, sensitive, great personality at work. Get his address, and send him a card, or just get his phone # and call him, and tell him. That would not be stalkerish. I wish you the best. I do have other ideas, also. im me yah-- id cathygunter4577
and i can tell you more
2006-07-13 03:52:05 · answer #3 · answered by Cathy G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when a guy say " i doesn't like pretty girls " he is talking about the personality, and if not, he is laying =]
and ye, u shouldn't think too much, if u really like the dude, u think there's a reason not to see if it can work between u 2 ?
get his number, give him a call, tell him (quote) :
"He quit now I realize how much I really do like him"
(just do it gentle)
and tell him you wanna see him.
if it'll work , I'll thank me, if not, I'll know what would happen if u'll try, and that's what its all about.
Wandermind: dude you're so negative, guys don't ask girls out for only one reason, insecure.
2006-07-13 03:51:55 · answer #4 · answered by tzuzaman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... It sounds as if to me that he simply has the ability to look allot deeper into girls than their looks which in no way could be considered a flaw. I doubt that he just doesn't like pretty girls probably just not after one that is stuck on herself. Perhaps he just hasn't had the confidence to ask you out if you are all that. I would go for it get the number & ask him out, but only call once unless he calls you back, that way you don't look like a stalker. Good Luck! You go girl!
2006-07-13 03:50:32 · answer #5 · answered by Jim's redheaded girly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Through the best friend's sister, best friend or whatever means find out how you can get a letter/card to him. Hand write a nice card with an invite to a night out, dinner or whatever you choose. Have it delivered in a small box big enough to fit one single rose(Yes, guys like gestures as such too) and the card...maybe to his new job, home(ONLY IF U KNOW HE'S SINGLE lol), etc. If he turns it down...what is it? Like $5-$6 loss. However, your thoughtful gesture just might lure him in...GO FOR IT!
2006-07-13 03:48:36 · answer #6 · answered by oneluv66366 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
mayb he don't like pretty girls is becos he has no faith in relationships with pretty girls...
why not use the reverse method? Don't tell him straight that you likes him.. instead be his friend.. go out regularly for movies, etc with a group of friends.. find out his interests, his fav topics, etc.. so that you are able to chat with him.. common topics.. and remb to be nice to him.. caring.. but as a friend or "sister".. let him discover what a nice girl you r, nice personalty, caring.. and he will be hooked... he will look forward to meeting u... etc...
Good luck..
2006-07-13 03:53:01 · answer #7 · answered by HaloVivian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever occur to you he may be gay? What kind of man does not like pretty girls. "Yeah, she's cute but I'll take the Jabba the Hut fill in with the coke bottle glasses." Does that make any sense to you? I would not throw yourself at a man who has shown no interest. It could be uncomfortable for both of you.
2006-07-13 03:46:12 · answer #8 · answered by cathcoug 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Take the initiative and just ask him if he'd like to go out sometime. Say you like him and want to get to know him better. It'll blow his mind and he just might wind up the happiest man in the world. Girls should be as blunt as possible because us guys can be clueless sometimes. We need the help! :)
2006-07-13 03:46:58 · answer #9 · answered by Falcon_01 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go ahead and have someone tell him about you. Get that girl to give him your phone number and if he calls explain your situation and ask him out for dinner
2006-07-13 03:46:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋