You're sexually active but the person you're in love w/ wants to wait until marriage?

Question

to have sex with you...what would you do? Would you be willing to wait or what? It could be years...or would you get it from somewhere else?

Answer 1

I would wait!

Answer 2

Ok, if you're in love with this person I'm assuming it didn't happen overnight. So, if that's true then I'm guessing you're actually NOT sexually active currently otherwise that would mean you've not been faithful to this person you love. So, if you've gone without while you got to know and fell in love with this person then you're carrying some pretty serious feelings. Therefore, sounds like you'd be willing to totally respect your partner's stance...guess this will let you know if you're TRULY IN LOVE! So many throw around "IN LOVE" but, have no clue what it means. So, if you're in fact in love you wouldn't disrespect this person by stepping outside the relationship and you'd wait patiently.

Answer 3

I would thank God that the person loves you enough to wait. If you love them too, you should not go get it elsewhere. The problem today is that sex has become a toy that people play with too early and then do not want to live without. If you want to be sexually active, I suggest finding someone who does as well. Good luck to you.

Answer 4

I'd get it elsewhere. It's not 1200 B.C. anymore. It's okay to have sex before marriage. In fact, if you're going to get married, you'd better be sure the sex is good enough that you'll want to have it with just that one person for the next 5 years or so.

Answer 5

I guess if you're willing to commit to him and really love him you wait until marriage, unless you just want sex, which if you do there are a million people who can help you with that. Good luck.

Answer 6

I guess if you love that person, you need to wait. If you go elsewhere, you really don't love them.

It's rare these days for people to wait, and good for you if your one of them.

I wish:
NO ONE under 18 would have sex.

People would wait for 3-6 months before having sex. (get to know someone first)
Once you have it, what is keeping you with that person after the first date other then having sex again?

EVERYONE wear a condom until you get married!
(less unplanned children (which can wreck a relationship, and std's)

If you love this person, wait, buy a toy or two for yourself so you don't need to go elsewhere for it.

Answer 7

if you aren't willing to wait, then you need to get out of this relationship. it is wrong to tell this person you are willing to wait but then go around and get your sexual fix somewhere else. either wait for this person, or move on. you have to determine what is more important to you -- this person or your sex drive.

Answer 8

Im currently in a relationship with someone who is waiting until after marriage. I love her and i know she's the one for me so I see no need to pressure her. I wont get it anywhere else, If I do I'll alone and probably dead.

Answer 9

That would depend if we actually had plans on marrying...if so I would wait for him...I obviously love him enought to marry him why not wait for him...Now if he just wanted to wait until marriage but we have no plans to marry at the moment....then I would have to ascertain whether this is a relationship I can handle...

Answer 10

If you love the person, you should wait. Maybe you can find other ways to pleasure each other. but, make sure that it is clear that when you do get married, there should be no restrictions on sex.

Answer 11

Wait.