Ever since March I have had a crush on my neighbor. I never let him know because I am kind of shy but we have had alot of eye contact and speaking and I didn't really bother to let him know because I figured that I had plenty of time since we live close to each other. He go arrested last week and I was concerned and there is a part of me that says wait until he gets out and conversate then but then again I figure that since I know where he is at I could just send a letter to show that I'm concerned in which I am but also attracted to him. I feel like I would be taking advantage of a bad situation and finally doing something that I was too scared to do when he was out. Does anyone have any advice?
2006-07-13 03:29:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wait.. if he's your neighbor and he's in jail, does that mean you're in jail?
2006-07-13 03:45:26 · answer #1 · answered by bretto24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should write him,,,, even go visit. I can speak from experience,,,, jail is a lonely place. You should even send some pics of you naked to him,,,, he can put them on the wall of his cell. That way he will always be thinking about you. It will also help keep his mind right so he doesnt think about switching teams,,,, theres alot of that going on in the big house.
2006-07-13 10:38:53 · answer #2 · answered by James 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, I think you should write him so he can know that someone cares about him. It might make his day!! Good Luck. By the way express how you feel about him in the letter if you write it!
2006-07-13 10:34:06 · answer #3 · answered by Teri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write as a friend ... i hope it's no murder or robbery that he's in jail for? otherwise i'd say you were pretty dumb ...
whatever you do, don't profess undying love for him or send him nude pics ... you'd be letting yourself in for all kinds of hassle
2006-07-13 10:33:54 · answer #4 · answered by Marinersfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, what was he arrested for? he may not be someone to get involved with, especially if he may be getting arrested in the future....
2006-07-13 10:32:58 · answer #5 · answered by WVMagpie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If neither one of you are married and you're sure he's a good guy who just messed up, go visit him.
2006-07-13 10:32:50 · answer #6 · answered by wmp55 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure why not- it is just a letter. he may appreciate knowing that someone is thinking about him.
2006-07-13 10:37:45 · answer #7 · answered by texasgirl5454312 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋