from a guys standpoint for me to actually date someone seriously and respect them, i would say at least 2 months...and im not talking bout just dating, im talking bout a serious relationship
2006-07-13 02:21:39 · 27 answers · asked by B-Dub 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just wondering..there are way too many whores out there these days and those aren't the type of girls i wanna be with forever u know?
2006-07-13 02:22:37 · update #1
Everyone is different, some girls wouldn't want to wait 2 months. But, a guy should wait as long as the girl wants if he is serious about her.
2006-07-13 02:26:51 · answer #1 · answered by mmrw101 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
oh no u didn't just say that!!!U can be serious about a guy and have sex before the 2 month mark w/o being a whore!!!If your in a serious relationship,I personally haven't done that...but to generalize and caterigize a women like that is wrong....u can't even tell me u or your friends haven't acted like whores(with one night stands and stuff)so thats just wrong to say that!!!
In answer to your question....it just depends on the relationship...and if she'd be comfortable w/it...whenever she'd be ready to do that..there is no set time period(for me we'd have to be dating for a while before that would happen...to see if he's just out for a piece of *** or if he'll be respectful and wait till i'm ready)
2006-07-13 02:34:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you respect that person you won't rush it. If it doesn't become an issue don't worry about it. Whatever you do don't pressure her into it. The person who said 20 minutes is ignorant and I hope you didn't take them serious. I would wait until you two really get to know each other. You don't want to be having sex with every person you date. You don't want to be the hoe that your trying to avoid!!! Wait at least 2 months.
2006-07-13 02:28:58 · answer #3 · answered by pooh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe it depends on the people involved. I would wait a good while, like 6 months or more. A lot can happen in that time frame that could make you like the person less. I'd say 6 months is a good time frame because you can tell how people are after being with them for that long.
2006-07-13 02:25:14 · answer #4 · answered by cows4me79 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know a lot of people who had sex on the first date and developed a meaningful relationship with each other.
I dont think there should be any time limit involved. Just go out, have fun, and see what happens.
Dont call women whores just because they enjoy sex. Sex is a healthy and natural thing. Just remember, safety first.
2006-07-13 02:31:14 · answer #5 · answered by wickedzone84 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive been with my man for 3 1/2 years and we didnt have sex until about the 3rd month we were dating and the wait was so worth it he blew my mind and he still does till this day I could never be with another man sexually Ill have to become a nun if we split up lol
2006-07-13 02:26:54 · answer #6 · answered by italianprincess_fl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no respectable time period... If its going to happen its going to happen... The outcome could still be the same if you waited 2 months or 2 years... You'll know when the time is right... When you have not one doubt about this person, and you know that they might possibly be around for the long run is when its best to go thru with it...
2006-07-13 02:35:26 · answer #7 · answered by msprettyalldtime 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how old you are. When I was a teen and dating, I made them wait forever. Meaning, I never had sex then. Then I was married and now that's over and then I dated again. I was in my late 30's, early 40's, and things change over time, like my body, and my thoughts, and I didn't wait nearly as long each time I dated someone.
2006-07-13 02:28:19 · answer #8 · answered by kitten lover3 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respectable my asss, you only need both persons to be in agreement and of age. So my answer is day 1, or day 30,or day 90, or day 356 or anything in between. This decision belongs to the couple. Also, whores do it for money. Get a grip!
2006-07-13 04:26:34 · answer #9 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose it would depend on the relationship. Two months sounds reasonable to me...no need to rush into anything before you get to know someone. I've found that it's better to build a rapport & friendship first to see if there's any attraction there other than animal lust. If there's not, most likely the relationship is going to be doomed before it even starts.
2006-07-13 02:27:20 · answer #10 · answered by kibbie01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋