Is it true that nice guys always finish last? Why is this?
2006-07-13 02:17:30 · 11 answers · asked by loving father 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NOTHING is a certainty in this world.. YES maybe they sometimes seem to .
.but sometimes even then, It may only be the person asking this q..that HIS perception is this way - because it has yet to play out?.. sooo many variables to this one..lol..but even that "if " and "when" it seems to finish this way..That person may have (either way the race finishes..)--in actuality HE may be the better off for it...?..mb that nice man is still coming out on top for what he learned, received, and now is able to apply to his life..
This is what I think when applied to us hot, nice chickies who feel as tho they may finish last at some times too ..lol
and also may I please say that you alone know when you are worthy to keep the race up!..lol AND MAY I ADD I DO LUV THE NICE GUYS>>>honest!! most real women that r worthy DO!
and as I started..
very little in this life is a certainty..what God blesses you with and how you receive it and then apply it is the only thing I see as a certain -as long as I'm here.
ps srry so long ..I HAD a real opinion HERE!! lol :) and also tryin to reply to some important emails I received this morning but you q caught my eye..*smile*
2006-07-14 06:35:38 · answer #1 · answered by staciesweet 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, I do believe. Nice guys always are thinking of others, instead of themselves. Sometimes, the others takes advantage of the nice guy and the nice guy ends up getting hurt. It is just a known fact. I know from experience.
2006-07-13 09:28:31 · answer #2 · answered by icemountian8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It absolutely is not true. It seems that way, because the bad guys jump ahead quickly, but, in the end, the bad guys lose and the nice guys win.
2006-07-13 09:22:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes,most girls will say they want a nice guy but they always go for the rough type of guys and dont really pay any attention to nice ones because they dont know how they will feel if they are not showing the right emotions towards them.
2006-07-13 09:23:57 · answer #4 · answered by sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that is not true. Alot of time males and females in general tend to be in bad relationships and then when a good person comes along they don't know how to deal with it. It's b/c they are so used to being mistreated. Keep the Faith!!!
2006-07-13 09:21:52 · answer #5 · answered by pooh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you just have been going out with women who don't appreciate you for who you are. Take a step back & look at all the women you've dated...there's probably a pattern to the types you go for. After all, the common denominator in these relationships is you. Then, after you take a good look at yourself, see what you need to do to try something different next time.
2006-07-13 09:23:49 · answer #6 · answered by kibbie01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think so Im 35 and hoping to find a nice guy.
2006-07-13 09:22:05 · answer #7 · answered by arreis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i kind of agree with that.....i guess nice people finish last.....
nice people tend to be taken advantage of in life. we spend our lives helping people and offering whatever assitance we can....but people in general don't return the favor.
2006-07-13 09:33:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not! From the pic you have posted you look like you are far from last. Good job!
2006-07-13 09:43:38 · answer #9 · answered by donnabbb43 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not always....... but they tend to.
Nice guys dont answer their own needs very well.
They answer others needs first.
So, in competition, they tend not to win.
2006-07-13 10:07:04 · answer #10 · answered by Alexander Shannon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋