When im having sex with my gf, i often picture different women in my mind. Its not that im not attracted to her either, shes gorgeous, but i cant help but do it every so often. Is this unfair of me if it is uncontrollable? The harder i try not to do it, the worse it gets. Thanks in advance.
2006-07-13 02:13:46 · 20 answers · asked by n8dogg22024 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think this is fairly common... she's probably thinking about other guys. How does that make you feel? Do you care?
2006-07-13 02:15:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're still attracted to her and really like her for who she is then no. As long as it's not just a sexual attraction. You could be the kind of person who gets into roll playing and things of that nature. Maybe you should suggest roll playing and see if that's what it is. Just don't tell her you think of other females b/c then she might want to break up with you.
2006-07-13 09:18:57 · answer #2 · answered by pooh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think this is wrong. But in fact, it probably indicates you have some potential mental disease, like what you said, you didn't want to think in that way , but you can't help, and it becomes worse when you make it fully occupied in your head. Do you happen to behave in that way, it's understandable because we are human being, sometimes , curiosity kills cat, right? But if this occurred frequently in your daily life in other aspects, you suggest you go see the psychologist.
Hopefully, you could come back soon.
2006-07-13 09:21:41 · answer #3 · answered by DJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it OK to think that way some time you might be try to come up with new thing to do to her as you go. the male mind is love to make pic of very sexy thing and it OK it not like a girl mind that need a story to keep the heat on we male are very much in to pic of all kinds o Lady's so in joy and keep you sex life in the red by sharing you men tel pic with her..
2006-07-13 09:21:53 · answer #4 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's natural to fantasize about having sex with someone else when you're with someone. Just don't take it to the next level & act on it or tell the person you're with that you're doing this, though. This could put you in a place you don't want to be in.
2006-07-13 09:17:00 · answer #5 · answered by kibbie01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't think it is wrong every once in a while - it is called fantasy! You really only need to worry when you can't get it on with your girlfriend without thinking of another woman/other women!
2006-07-13 09:16:22 · answer #6 · answered by Tatsbabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well some people just do that and yes they cant help it but I would not know as I dont do that. Dont worry to much about it as you have said the more you try not to it happens so just dont worry and you never know it may go away. Good luck
2006-07-13 09:16:27 · answer #7 · answered by Pinkflower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay. She's probably fantasizing about being with a real man. Enjoy!
2006-07-13 09:16:05 · answer #8 · answered by Shady Lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A little weird but if that makes you want more sex than all power to you.
2006-07-13 09:16:36 · answer #9 · answered by conversegirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the other women are family members,
then it's wrong. Otherwise, no big deal.
2006-07-13 09:17:37 · answer #10 · answered by PoohP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋