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why do most women very difficult to control emotion? if they hate you or some body!

2006-07-13 02:10:50 · 25 answers · asked by MUHAMAD TOHAZX 1 in Arts & Humanities Genealogy

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This is the genealogy section and has nothing to do with your question. I think you are looking for Health.

2006-07-13 02:22:10 · answer #1 · answered by Gatherer 3 · 1 0

I think you are not a US speaking person. So I am not going to pick on your sentence. The problem is when you leave words out (like here), it is hard to understand what the question is. Want to try again? Are you trying to say "why do most women find it very difficult to control emotion?" If that is the question, it's because we were made this way. We cry easily (most of us anyway). It's one of the small differences between men an women. I know quite a few men who can't control emotions too. Besides, holding it all in isn't mentally healthy either.

2006-07-13 02:15:14 · answer #2 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 0 1

Woman are very intune with their emotions they are not afraid to show how they feel. Therefore when they are angry they show it and when they are sad they show it. Most guys on the other hand when they were growing up Mommy or Daddy did not want to have a sissy boy or a wimpy boy so they were harder on them when they cried they would tell them to stop crying and take it like a man or if they were angry they would tell them they had to control their anger. Woman also tend to become more attached to things than men do. It is the natural nurturing quality in them. This makes them put everything they see and do into being very personal. Woman also have a tendency of giving everything a personality so when an animal gets hurt they think of it in a more personal way and they cry for them(they feel there pain) Believe it or not this is the make up of the gender that you men seek out. Do guys go and seek the girls that dress and act like guys? No they seek out the girl that is gentle and feminine and girly. You like us to be girly when it suits your needs( waiting on you, laughing at your jokes,caring for you when you are sick, dressing up for you) but when it doesn't suit your needs it becomes a problem( taking too much time to look nice before going out, tired from work so we don't laugh at your joke, tending to our children which meansyour not first anymore, cry at a movie that makes us think of our life) A woman that controls their emotionas really well is not very much a woman. I know a few woman that are like this and guess what. Everyone of them is still not married and almost 40. Face it men like the emotional side of woman they just don't understand it. They always feel like they have to fix the problems. Woman don't want you to fix it, they just want you to listen to the problem, let us cry on your shoulder or rant and rave for a few minutesto release our feelings. We do not expect you to repair the problem all the time. Just let us be able to show our emotions without ridicule or anger from you. Let us know you care that we are hurting.We are spirited individuals. It is what attracted you to us in the first place. The best words my husband can say to me when I have a bad day at work or I am angry with a friend is " I wish I could help" or "Is there anything I can do?" that says it all. It tells me he cares even though he cannot take away the problems or pains in my life. Hope this has helped sorry for the length.

2006-07-13 02:37:04 · answer #3 · answered by curiosity 4 · 1 0

Women are more open about emotions than men. We had more encouragement on this than men had. It is possible that you have a problem with emotion and are readimg more into what you are seeing. Men could learn something from women. Women support each other by listening to each other. We know we can't solve the problem, but we know that just by talking about it and yes, sharing our emotions, we can feel much better. Also by doing this, we often come up with the answers that work for us.

2006-07-13 10:50:37 · answer #4 · answered by Simmi 7 · 1 0

Most women don't care for men who put the wrong question in the wrong category.
Emotional, yes I am right now. Move your question to a category that discusses emotions. Genealogy does not have anything to do with genes.

2006-07-14 02:07:45 · answer #5 · answered by Dottie 6 · 0 0

Women are raised to show emotions while males are raised to suppress emotions and be tough. Both women and men have various levels of estrogen and testosterone. But the way society has influenced how we are raised plays a big part in who we are and how we act.

2006-07-13 06:35:01 · answer #6 · answered by ckoneonme 2 · 0 0

It is for me. Sometimes. But I think I'm a little bit depressed too. That makes a difference. Last time I started crying in line at the grocery store. Weird, huh? Funny thing is, I don't even remember what triggered it.

2016-03-27 03:40:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Since when are men better at that than women?

That will be the day - maybe you are just bad in reading people's emotions - that is why you think that.

Is this hampering your career - you could take a course in this.

Practise makes perfect.

2006-07-13 04:14:55 · answer #8 · answered by veronica 4 · 0 0

nature of women i guess... but u know that's healthier wether mentally or physically coz deprerssion of emotions will just make u suffer alot.. but if u a cry for example, u got this to a relieve mechanism which makes u feel better.. i think guys are too shy to try what women do ;)

2006-07-13 02:20:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Sometimes, we're just compensating for the emotional unavailability of men. After all, we're supposed to complete each other.

2006-07-13 05:36:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I agree with goodday, rephrase your question.

As for why "women can't control their emotions" it's because of hormones. Trust me, if you got a shot of estrogen, you would be a weeping mess too.

2006-07-13 02:17:20 · answer #11 · answered by Jennifer Q 2 · 0 0

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