Marriage isn't necessary, but an agreement between two people to love and support each other for as long as they can is...
Also children from parent's that aren't married may have some legal problems while they are young, but it's a completely different story...
2006-07-13 01:51:18
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answer #1
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answered by Jasna 4
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Marriage is good for some and not good for others. In my opinion, when you fall in love and make a committment to spend your life with someone, that's when you become married. Not when you walk down the aisle in some spectacular ceremony.
Don't rush into anything, and never get married unless you've weighed the pros and cons. Just make sure you love the person and you have similar views on child rearing, finances, etc.
2006-07-13 01:50:35
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answer #2
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answered by Lady J 4
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It depends on the culture you find yourself. Even though you may not really desire marriage and you think you can live alone, sometimes cultural influence and pressure from friends and family may make you consider getting married. Some culture sees it as abnormal for a fully grown man to be single. Even single ladies are not treated with much respect either.
Also, the issue of procreation comes in here. Outside of adoption, you need to get married to raise children for yourself, and perpetuate your generation.
2006-07-13 01:58:25
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answer #3
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answered by phonerism 1
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Society has rules of engagement towards the opposite sex. Marriage ties the know sort of speak. It declares two as one by the Holy Bible.
On the other hand, marriage should of never been invented and we wouldn't have divorce.
Marriage establishes the covenant between two people that decided to scream for the rest of their lives.
2006-07-13 01:54:08
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answer #4
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answered by Anonymous
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absolutely not.
some people are just not meant to marry or wouldn't be complemented by hooking up with a partner. Maybe just at that time. Life changes as you get older and your needs also change. Some people, (those who fit into the "can't commit" catagory) are too selfish anyway to share their life and responsibilities with another. People who are too into themselves to focus on another person as intently as it takes to keep a marriage good, should not get married. Many times people like this do get married and they make for a horrible husband or wife and only make their spouse miserable.
Unfortunately, like luv states in her bible passage,
If you don't decide to get married, you have to stay a virgin for the rest of your life (if you already arn't one), and according to the bible, the best reason to get married is that you won't be *****.......ugh..
2006-07-13 01:51:40
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answer #5
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answered by Anonymous
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It didn't work out for me. And It's not because I cheated either. We simply grew apart. We became different people. I'm forty, and I'm still not sure I'll ever find my true love. But I'm happy with my life for the most part, and if I meet my soul mate than great. But if I don't, I have no regrets...
And that's what it comes down to really. Do we regret what might have been? Or accept life as It comes along?
2006-07-13 03:32:03
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answer #6
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answered by Anonymous
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Here's what the Bible says, I love this passage :)
1 Corinthians 7:1-9
1 Now for the matters you wrote about: It is good for a man not to marry.
2 But since there is so much immorality, each man should have his own wife, and each woman her own husband.
3 The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband.
4 The wife's body does not belong to her alone but also to her husband. In the same way, the husband's body does not belong to him alone but also to his wife.
5 Do not deprive each other except by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.
6 I say this as a concession, not as a command.
7 I wish that all men were as I am. But each man has his own gift from God; one has this gift, another has that.
8 Now to the unmarried and the widows I say: It is good for them to stay unmarried, as I am.
9 But if they cannot control themselves, they should marry, for it is better to marry than to burn with passion.
So no, it's not necessary. :)
2006-07-13 01:51:39
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answered by ♥ Luveniar♫ 7
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''A man and a friend are playing golf one day. One of the guys is about to chip onto the green when he sees a long funeral procession of a woman, on the road next to the course. 'He stops in mid-swing, takes off his golf cap, closes his eyes, and bows down in prayer. His friend says, "'Wow that is the most thoughtful and touching thing I have ever seen. You are truly a kind man.' 'The friend replies: 'Yeah, well, I was married 35 years ago with her.' -----She was his wife. -- means he was least bothered with his wife
So unless this situation happens marriage is important in life. ---- mean to say that there must be love for each other.
2006-07-13 02:52:42
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answered by friend99 1
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2016-12-10 06:01:09
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answered by ? 4
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no i don't think you have to get married, it may not be for everyone. but i am happy to be married and enjoy every moment of it. But if you are happier not being married then i say why do it? Just be happy in life and do what makes and keeps you that way. Marriage is not for everyone.
2006-07-13 01:49:50
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answer #10
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answered by littleluvkitty 6
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