I love to whisper and I love to moan when i make love it turns me on, my husband wnts it quiet that turns me off, i don't want to make love anymore. I don't know why but it sets me on fire.. I can go all knight. I can turn myself on just by thinking of moaning (as i am now) and don't understand it. Is it normal to be quiet or does a man normally like it quiet. Or is he trying to hear himself when he cumz...hmmmm
2006-07-13 01:39:06 · 22 answers · asked by ziyyarichmond43 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok Babe.Nobody has touched in this option about your moaning..
To some men if they hear you moaning or making any noise during sex...It just sets them off and they loose all control and the orgasm hits them and the errection is gone..
Now on the other hand there is the other side of the coin..To the mass populas of men....It is a huge turn-on and it can make the errection even stiffer..So that would be a huge turn-on....
Now for a little info on me.......I have been told by my lovers that I am the only guy thath they have been with that moans and is vocal........some have found that to be a good thing and some have found that to be a bad thing...
Then there is the question of.....Do you have children in the home.???
Do you live in an appartment building.????? If any of these question s are yes...It may be a worry of being heard.....He may have an issue with other people knowing what is going on.....
Me myself I would want people to know that my wife/partner is being satisfied.... !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Enjoy life and do not change who you are......Like some else suggested try going away from home...To a private place where there is no one around for miles......And seee what happens then...Also pay close attention to his performance when you are vocal compared to when you are not....
Love life and love yourself first....
2006-07-13 02:11:32 · answer #1 · answered by tanear1964 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I dont know about him, I think most men enjoy hearing those passonaite whispers,moan and verbal out bursts it is definitely a turn on for me, knowing that you are total free and sexually arosed, to look in your eyes as well. sex is a way of expressing the bond shared between you, another form of communication. Heck you might even hear a few for me as well. there is nothing more exciting than to knowing that you are enjoying the moment together, when all else in the world around you disapates, and all that remains is raw passion shared between you. at least thats my take on the situation. If he has problem with sex I tend to believe that there are other issues that need to be addressed.
2006-07-13 03:39:15 · answer #2 · answered by blake1164 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think something is terribly wrong with your hus!! Actually it should have been like that!! Nothing to hide or suppress in the bedroom!! Probably the fear of sounds being heard by others is making him mask his feelings! Go on a trip to somewhere where there is none nearby and have "free" sex with "free" moans and whispers!!!
2006-07-13 01:51:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2016-03-27 03:39:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you moan it will turn me on, and fill me with more energy. I want to hear you and I can, your moan make me so hot, and its getting warm now just think of you.
SCREAM, make me YELL you name..
2006-07-13 03:31:35 · answer #5 · answered by wendell t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the more moaning,talking and screaming the better,to me it is a turn on
2006-07-13 02:06:49 · answer #6 · answered by SarcasticAnomaly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain why this is so importanat and ask him why he doesn't like it? I like to listen I am not much of a talker btuI do moan!
2006-07-13 01:42:33 · answer #7 · answered by $D*Da*Spoild*1$ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men n women like different things some men like hearin their women moan loudly durin sex n some dont depends on da person
2006-07-13 01:41:51 · answer #8 · answered by damademan2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SCREAM and HOLLER and MOAN all you want to if I can make you make noise then I'm doing my job right, if you aren't making noise then I've failed. If you want to make noise and your hubby doesn't want you to give me yell, I'll let tyou scream your head off.
2006-07-13 02:01:24 · answer #9 · answered by snuffy_muffy_eater 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the moan is one of the best parts why it turns him off i dont know but its not you your perfect
2006-07-13 01:41:57 · answer #10 · answered by ACE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋