My wife left me and our son after 12yrs of marriage. I am so lonely and miss her. I still am in love with her but she has moved on and is dating. How can I get over her and start dating. I have no family or friends and its just my son and I.
2006-07-13 01:34:43 · 12 answers · asked by scheib65 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't push it. After 12 years you may not be ready to let go and accept something new yet. Do not let what she is doing influence you into doing something you are not yet ready for. In time it will come, and you will know. Besides, if she left you and your son....I would have to say that you are better off not to have her in your life. Focus on your son, and the rest will come soon enough. Please be patient, and remember that your son is also hurting and needs his dad's understanding and wisdom right now....not to mention your shoulder. Good luck.
I hope you find someone who will love you and your son, and can't stand to be without the two of you.
2006-07-13 01:41:30 · answer #1 · answered by ozy184 1 · 19⤊ 3⤋
Wait until the divorce is final. Then I would suggest trying to meet someone online. Put a recent photo onto a personals site and always tell the truth.
2006-07-13 01:41:06 · answer #2 · answered by wmp55 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should stop.Go somewhere I know it's hard to do but you have too.It's gonna take some time.Try not to think about her.talk to your son and tell him that he should stop talking about her at least in front of you.
Try to make new friends. Try different dating services.You can make friends there and maybe find a new g/f or wife.
I found some on Internet for you
http://www.datingz.com/
http://www.okcupid.com/
http://www.sweetheartsunlimited.com/...
http://www.freedatingdeals.com
http://www.partnerfinder.com
Good luck
2006-07-13 01:44:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-01 23:44:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you beieve in the man above, i promise that he will put someone in your path. If you ask him to give you a comapnion and it is in his plan it will happen. It did for me after being devorced for 11 years and not dating. then i stepped out and just started looking on the internet and got into one bad thing after another and decided to get comfortable with myself and leave the rest up to God and he has put a wounderful man in my path and i believe that it is the one person i will spend the rest of my life with.
2006-07-13 01:42:18 · answer #5 · answered by petes_sweet_pea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
12 years is a long time but its never too late to start again. try going to places where lots of people meet, or even try online dating sites. some are very good. take things easy and it will all come back to you. good luck.
2006-07-13 01:39:58 · answer #6 · answered by vanessaoz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out and have some fun leave your kid with a baby sitter and go to a club put your self out there the best way to forget about an old flame is to start a new fire
2006-07-13 01:40:20 · answer #7 · answered by ACE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps join a parents without partners group.
2006-07-13 01:38:23 · answer #8 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u tryed to talk with here and she's determined about this..and she doesn't want to give u one more chance..than u should respect her decision...and move on...life goes on...and think about this as a second chance...not every one has that chance....there are ppl who are stuck in a mariage that doesn't work...and they just can't get out of it.
2006-07-13 01:42:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey Jabba/scheib. could you email me: unlost@hotmail.com because we have similar situations and may be able to help each other.
for now all i can say is don't jump into anything.
2006-07-13 02:53:21 · answer #10 · answered by get_unlost 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋