He promise to marry me. Whenever i visit him, he is always demanding for sex. am beginning to feel he only wants me for sex or is it normal.
2006-07-13 00:58:19 · 25 answers · asked by Anne O 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Men like sex. FACT
However if you are starting to feel used, the chances are he is using you.
This happened to me with my ex.
l loved him so much, but the only thing we ever really did was have loads of sex. You do have lots of sex in new relationships, cos its all new and exciting, we were only together for 10 months so l enjoyed the sex and we lots of fun doing it, however after not so long l started to think "man, this is all we really do"
Over the course of 10 months l had meet his family and friends, so it's not like he didn't like me or want people to meet me but when the times came when l really needed him, he wasn't there for me.
l kind of realised that as much as he was fond of me, we were never really going to be anything more then just "fun".
There will come a time when you may really need him to be there for you, if he stands by you, he loves you, if he doesn't, then yeah, he's just using you for a bit of fun.
2006-07-13 02:09:28 · answer #1 · answered by London girl 3 · 9⤊ 2⤋
some people want sex a lot more than others, some its very important and some it aint. he's prob got a very high sex drive. ive been with a fella like that, and u do wonder, but if the times ur not having sex r great and things seem sweet then i doubt he just wants u 4 sex. do u get to see each other a lot?? if ur worrying then be straight with him that way at least u will know
2006-07-13 01:02:16 · answer #2 · answered by roundtree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with roundtree1
Some people want sex a lot more than others, some its very important and some it aint - but for most guys, its is very important - it gives them a great sence of 'acceptance' and its a great psychological boost. he's prob got a very high sex drive. If the times ur not having sex r great and things seem sweet then i doubt he just wants u 4 sex.
2006-07-13 01:08:00 · answer #3 · answered by life_is_rhythm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normal.
2006-07-13 01:01:21 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. BIG 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really want him to marry you (and I'd think hard about that one) then play hard to get and say "no". This works on the principle that people always desire what they can't have much more than when it's handed to them on a plate. Try it. It really works.
2006-07-13 01:10:59 · answer #5 · answered by martic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal to want sex. However, he should respect your values (if you are not ready yet), and shouldn't be pushing. To demand that your boyfriend/girlfriend, or husband/wife even DO certain sexual act that they don't want to do it unacceptable. If my boyfriend demanded that i do anal, I'd tell him to forget it. You have to respect your partner's boundaries.
2006-07-13 01:06:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no offense and no hard feelings, but it seems like you are a bit of toilet tissue papper roll , he is just using you and when the time comes you are going to end up in a trash can....damn i'm good at narrating things, gotta try story telling and directing films... see ya
2006-07-13 01:08:41 · answer #7 · answered by HELL RAISER 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The more sex he gets from you, the less chance he will marry you!
2006-07-13 01:02:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
once or twice do not accept to have sex and see he is still interested in you. If not it is obvious that he wants u for sex only
2006-07-13 01:10:30 · answer #9 · answered by gelilio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm afraid that is normal. If you suspect he only wants you for sex then you are probably right.
2006-07-13 01:02:44 · answer #10 · answered by FontOfNoKnowledge 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋