Basically i really like this guy! i was at college for 2 years and we did not really get to know each other, but in the last week of college he asked me (as a friend - i guess) to a club he goes to with his mates, some of them i know and am friend with. He has a girl friend but i have heard they are always arguing.
However, whenever i see him now he always looks me right in the eye with a kind of "stare", if that makes sense, and i have caught him looking at me. He always finds something to ask me, like what am i doing now i have left college or did i enjoy the party the other night.
But the problem is i know his girlfriend, and although i am not friends we do get on.
I don't want to wreck their relationship, i am just imagining things which are not their? is he just being friendly and am i reading to much into things?
Somebody, help!!!
2006-07-13 00:56:42 · 8 answers · asked by nervous 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He want's you after he dumps his current girlfriend.
2006-07-13 01:03:05 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. BIG 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I separate the person from who they are, i.e. a body part, that person has an incredible bottom, or they are hot, I am separating the person from who they are to how they appear/look. I am also idealizing who they are based on the objectification of their body, i.e., because that person is hot, I would like to get to know them, or somehow they are appealing emotionally mentally because they are hot. As I am objectifying, lust shows itself in fantasy. What would I like, what would I like to do with and to them. So I would say when the idealized picture of this person is replaced with reality, IE., who they really are. You can accept and be willing to see past faults, issues, problems because Love carries no jealousy, love doesn't judge, love don't do anything for self gratitude, love gives unconditionally, love is trust, love is respect, love is truth!
2006-07-15 02:21:17 · answer #2 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi!,
I think u like the guy but u are shy to make a first move.
Go ahead and ask him...what is he thinking of you!!
Go out with him and find out
I think he is also interested in you!
Do not waste time!!
2006-07-13 08:06:32 · answer #3 · answered by kulkarnidg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as he doesn't make a move on u keep searching for someone else
oh, if thats the case keep in mind that clearly the fact that he has a girlfriend doesn't keep eyes from wandering... so he doesn't seem that trustworthy to begin with
2006-07-13 08:00:45 · answer #4 · answered by --- 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about it. If he's single, then you ask yourself the question, but why care if he's not. Soon it could be you and he 'always arguing' and another girl asking herself these questions.
2006-07-13 08:00:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is very interested in you. Just let things play out and see what happens.
2006-07-13 09:40:48 · answer #6 · answered by hateizmybestfriend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean myocardial infarction?? You should go to your nearest med clinic and get help immediately.........this is a serious matter of the heart.
2006-07-13 08:02:21 · answer #7 · answered by Gingerbread man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it soundz like he is waiting to pop teh question he just iz waiting 4 the rite time
2006-07-13 08:00:54 · answer #8 · answered by nerdymusician451 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋