as i am in affair with my hubby i want to get marry him. i have got the positive result from his dad to get marry me but his mother is not giving us the permission. so what to do
2006-07-13 00:35:21 · 7 answers · asked by Dian 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
how old are u, if ur future hubby still lets his parents make decisions for him then that's sad...if ur of age, screw it, just marry him, marriage is between two ppl not the entire family
2006-07-13 00:39:29 · answer #1 · answered by breni03_bsb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not her business frankly. My fiance and I had a similar problem too. Finally what had to be done was that my fiance talked to her and told her that he loved her and that he valued her opinion and he wanted her blessing BUT whether or not she gave it did not alter the fact that we WERE getting married.
Unfortunately there is nothing YOU can do to make her to make her give you 'permission.' That has to be between your fiance and his mother. If he won't put his foot down for you with his mother now, she'll be controlling both of you for the rest of your lives. My advice? He's going to have to make a choice in this. The problem is that there is no certain answer when mothers are invovled.
2006-07-13 08:30:26 · answer #2 · answered by Kitten 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has to have his mommy's permission to marry you, tell him to forget it. If she's running your relationship now, she always will.
2006-07-13 07:48:14 · answer #3 · answered by bookfreak2day 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you could talk to her and see why she does not say yes to your marrage. Im sure you can sort it out. Good Luck
2006-07-13 07:39:50 · answer #4 · answered by Pinkflower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait and keep on your relations. Everything takes time!
2006-07-13 07:40:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont blame her. hwo can you get in a affair with a married man....
2006-07-13 07:39:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
pray.
2006-07-13 07:37:39 · answer #7 · answered by hector 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋