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Question

i wonder why girls forget their BF/friends so easily? why girls so easily come out strong after break up?wat kind of qualties do they look for in men? comparatively boys r more emotionally insecure isn't? so many questions, can anyone answer:)

Answer 1

Women tend to have a stronger support system when going through a breakup then men do... it is true that statistically speaking that men take breakups far worse then women do, although women tend to be more visibly emotional about it. It's because men don't really talk about their feelings to other men. Women have mothers, sisters, friends to help them through it. How many guys would cry on their father's shoulders when breaking up with a girlfriend? So without that release, guys tend to act out in goofy ways (getting drunk, damaging property, etc.)

It's not that girlfriends forget their boyfriends, its that they sort out how they feel faster, deal with their emotions and move on (generally, of course)

Answer 2

let's see. u seem kind of getting out of a relationship that ended up to be a failure but plz don't judge all girls after all u shouldn't generalize a rule about a group of people without knowing every member of this group . anyway , to answer ur question , as a gurl i didn't forget my X this easily although i was the one who broke up with him , i still have some memories in my mind , coz i simply accepted my choices whether it ends up to be the right one or no after all , life is about taking some risks .. about the qualities , we 're looking for in men it's all about SECURITY , u know to feel perfect enough in his eyes , to see him as the one who would stand beside u whenever u need him , it's not as simple as it seems . on the other hand , i don't think that guys are more emotionally insecure , it's just about finding the right girl , the one who would complete him in everything he does . good luck anyway ....

Answer 3

Some times the girl just seems stronger but you dont know what happens at home in her room she could be crying her heart out. Girls dont forget thy just put it to the back of their minds really. They want a nice, kind man who is himself and not trying to show off. Show her some love and listen to her.
Well im not sure about boys but some can be very upset after a brake up.

Answer 4

That's not true.. Girls don't come out strong easily after a break-up, they are more sensitive then guys are and that's a fact.

Answer 5

I dont think we come out so strong out of a relationship. We suffer major heartache just like a man does, and most of the time we feel it harder then the man. I dont think there is a easy answer to any of these as we all feel things differently

Answer 6

actually, most women aren't that strong but we make it seem like if we're ok but we're not, the look for someone with a good heart, sense of humor, caring....men are insecure because they are afraid of rejection but women are afraid they will never be asked out so it evens out

Answer 7

I just had a very bad break up with a guy i really really loved. So looking at my current situation...I can safely say that its not easy. Not at all. When you lose a person you really cared for...its almost like losing a piece of yourself.

Answer 8

well that is because sometimes girls like me have to have a break for bf and gf well sometimes girls need freedom well that is strong care sorri I don't know the last one

Answer 9

nope they don't forget that easily... and nope they don't always come out strong... but they have a nice set of friends that they can count on and make them better thus appearing that they are strong...

Answer 10

The girls forget their only BFs who fail to understand their desires and fill them with pleasure. there is no use crying over spilt milk and don't disappoint them. they are human beings and they have desires, they may not have the guts to ask but you have to understand.