I'm beginning to have feelings for him, but I'm not sure how guys see the casual hook up thing. Help please?
2006-07-12 23:48:39 · 14 answers · asked by Molly 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're his f**k buddy. Simple as that.
2006-07-12 23:50:31 · answer #1 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys will not want a relationship where they can already get the sex for free..am sorry about the bluntness but you asked..I personally have only had a few friends with benifits..(F)#@% buddies...but I was not actually having sex with those gals..just messing around. He probably likes it the way it is ..but it never hurts to ask him..besides..if you are not happy with the situation..just simply end it. I myself am not a normal guy...I would have had feelings for the gal the first time we went all the way. Again I am far from normal guy..lost virginity at age 22 and have only been with a total of 2...am just not promiscuous...I always would say this to gals after going home with them from the club ..."I want to sleep with you (sleep) not have sex,..we will still be friends in the morning, we won't have to worry much about diseases, and finally girl you wont get prego(pregnant)' Now there were some that wanted to go all the way..but it takes two too tango..I no dance...lol Peace ! ;)
2006-07-12 23:58:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
being true guy will understand the feelings of yours .
casual hook ups are not always casual as you think for guys.
2006-07-12 23:54:05 · answer #3 · answered by B A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if that is the only time yall hook up is after you get drunk at parties then its probaly just a piece to him...but you could ask him and see.
2006-07-12 23:51:22 · answer #4 · answered by Texas_at_its_best 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex, sex,sex!! he's drunk and horny and he wants to have sex!!! you are his outlet, his release, his aaaahhh!!! his 3-4am booty call...
most men see it as that, just a casual hook up thing! if you allow it, he will continue to do it! if you are developing feelings for him, i suggest you stop these encounters so that you wont get yourself more emotionally involved and get your feelings hurt!
2006-07-13 00:12:46 · answer #5 · answered by heresthedeal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, at least you're honest. most promiscuous women (which are most women) would rather live in denial, and that ain't no river in egypt!
despite my respect for your honesty, your situation remains hopeless. you may as well enjoy the sex, becuase thats all it will ever be.
2006-07-12 23:55:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to say but he only wants you after hes been drinking ..most guys have that one girl they allways want after one to many ..its a booty call .. do you go on dates or to each other homes ? if not hes got someone there ....
2006-07-12 23:54:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's going on in YOUR head is the question.
2006-07-12 23:51:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
same thing that's going through your head
2006-07-12 23:52:43 · answer #9 · answered by bobby h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh palllleeezzzze...You're a drunkin booty call....Wake up ...smell your drunkin breath.....This guy has no feelings for you other than you're a piece of tail at last call..
2006-07-12 23:51:49 · answer #10 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We dohnna the hell of his headh sweethy.
U gonna aska that sona to b'h sure'h
2006-07-12 23:55:36 · answer #11 · answered by boom9849 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋