see iwnt to break up with a girl but she loves me a lot wat will i do
2006-07-12 23:16:04 · 9 answers · asked by Pranaav 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are breaking up with her....braking up always hurts someone......if she is not for you.....then you must separate.....be a man, and just do it.....it will make both of you happy in the long run
2006-07-12 23:19:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breakups are tough. And they are even tougher if the person who is getting dumped, loves the dumpee. I dont' understand what you mean by how will it hurt her. Like, how much? Probably a lot if she does love you like she says. How long have you been together? What kind of relationship have you had? How are things going now? Those are all important things to concider when you're trying to find out how much it will hurt her. There really is only one way that's nice to break up w/someone. Don't do it online unless you're a pansy. Just tell her that it isn't working, that you dont' feel the same. When all is said and done and you have both moved on to better things, you both will be glad that you split. Be brave! Good luck!!
2006-07-13 06:23:37 · answer #2 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you want to break up with means she will get hurt. So just pluck up the courage to tell, it will hurt but in time believe me she will get over it. I'm sure you are not the first & last guy that will break up with her. Good Luck
2006-07-13 06:22:01 · answer #3 · answered by DEE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is tough, but still, if you want to break up with her, you must try and make her want the same. So i guess you need to pull a small game on her(v.mean, but effective) try and remember what was the main reason she fell for you, they slowly sway from that...meaning change that in yourself, it will tend to make you unpleasent and then breaking up wont be so tough, coze she wont' like u anyways.
2006-07-13 06:38:32 · answer #4 · answered by really_confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going to do a worse and definitely prepared yourself for a massive disaster in your life, because you said that, she loves you. May God shows you the right way.
2006-07-13 06:26:52 · answer #5 · answered by vsz59 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u obviously dont like the girl anymore, dont prolong her agony. it isnt fair for both of you to continue a one-sided relationship. you owe her the truth, if anything else. do it gently. tell her that she deserves somebody who could love her more than u ever could. make it clear that it isnt her who is the problem. tell her u have issues to deal with and you can deal them better on your own. good luck.
2006-07-13 06:22:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have to tell her even if it hurts her. tell her frankly whatever is ther in your mind. answer all her questions coz u r answerable to her. though it will hurt her, there are some steps which have to be taken. so go ahead just tell her but dont do it on the phone. meet her personally and then tell her.
2006-07-13 06:24:25 · answer #7 · answered by andekhi_anjaani 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls will hurt anyhow. try to hurt her less by showing logic of this break up. talk to her and give her time to coordinate.
2006-07-13 06:20:22 · answer #8 · answered by manalonedubai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm... thats hard.. okay 1st start avoiding her then.. that way its gonna be more easier for u and her
2006-07-13 06:20:38 · answer #9 · answered by sarmie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋