my gf of about a year and a half is moving 4 hours away when she graduates in winter, and i have 2 more years of school. she doesnt think it will be a big deal but i think it will. think that could work out or are we screwed?
2006-07-12 23:11:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not really esp when u hav mobile, internet and webcam
2006-07-12 23:12:44 · answer #1 · answered by kzzxguy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you care about your relationship enough, anything is possible, including long distance relationships. Just why is it a big deal to you? Is it a physical problem? Because you can't have sex whenever? Or will you just miss her. Thats important to concider. You are only screwed if you let it be that way.
2006-07-13 06:15:38 · answer #2 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not screwed as you wrongly put it. Love knows no bound. Freedom is part of love experience, you should both consider the future.
2006-07-13 06:17:27 · answer #3 · answered by Sage_Learner 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 hours away isnt that far, but normally it doesnt work, to much work, not enough time and people move on...
2006-07-13 06:19:26 · answer #4 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wish my girl friend was only 4 hours away, we have seen each other once in the past 4 months and I do not get to see her again until around dec. but yes they can work if you try. but just incase it doesn't you might wanna have a stand by
2006-07-13 06:14:25 · answer #5 · answered by scribdog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your young then it won't work. Think of all the cool chicks you'll meet and all the guys she'll meet.
You might manage it for a few months but out of sight out of mind I'm afraid.
Cut your losses, you've had a good time with her but its time to call it a day,
2006-07-13 06:15:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will eventually take its toll on u both, try to work it out as much as u can but if u feel like it's just too much then just leave it behind u, if it's meant to be u'll both end up together anyways
2006-07-13 06:16:23 · answer #7 · answered by breni03_bsb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know the saying:"Absense makes the heart grow fonder". If u truely in love, theres nothing that will stop u guys from staying togther. but u have to make it work.
2006-07-13 06:22:39 · answer #8 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as for my experience, not one has ever work out so far when it comes to my distance relationships...
but you know what they say, "if there's will, there's a way..."
2006-07-13 06:38:08 · answer #9 · answered by Squall_22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u both in true love then yeah it will work if u guys r amtures then no u will be screwed!
2006-07-13 06:16:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋