we were talking abt babies with my family 1 day, suddenly my 8 year old brother asked me how do babies come into the women's stomach? i said when god sees a couple got married, he makes a small baby in the women's stomach. coz women take care of children the best. then till 9months baby grows then the doctors cut her stomach and take the baby out. i feel i did a wrong thing to lie to him. may b there was a better explanation to his ques. right???
2006-07-12 22:17:24 · 15 answers · asked by angelic 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Well it's more truthful than being left in the coal shed :P, It's not completly lies, and it's better for children to have some remains of innocence rather than being forced to grown up too quick in today's society.
I was horrified, whenever I was lying in my room reading a book, a couple of girls no more than 9 years old talking about giving blow-jobs out side of my house.
Whats better, a child remaining innocent for longer and enjoying his/her childhood, or being forced to grow up really quickly and loose all the innocence and be well, quite perverted!
2006-07-12 22:22:44 · answer #1 · answered by Chrissie 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-06 07:33:46 · answer #2 · answered by tito 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck if I was 8 and someone told me that a doctor was going to cut open someones stomach and take something out I'd be scarred for life. that sounds like something out of an alien movie. should've told him the sugar coated truth. come on, he's probably seen more on TV.
2006-07-12 22:26:26 · answer #3 · answered by g t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not worry about it. He still a little young to understand how babies really get there in the first place. Sooner or later, he'll ask again and maybe by that time he'll be more ready to hear the actual truth about it.
2006-07-12 22:22:52 · answer #4 · answered by Jo Ann 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better xplanation? Might be. U should that 'stomach cutting part' from the whole story. Thats all. Except that the whole story is perfect.
2006-07-12 22:21:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might have given better explanation but there is nothing wrong with that really! =P there is no reason to worry about it..íf he has any questions he ll just come and ask you ..
2006-07-12 22:25:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should have told him the truth because he is 8 but lying wasnt really wrong
2006-07-12 22:21:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest the best thing to do in this situation would be to tell your brother to ask your parents. However, i dont think you did the wrong thing, as i said, its up to your parents to have this discussion with him.
2006-07-12 22:23:56 · answer #8 · answered by kjay 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with your effort but he's old enough for a simplified version of the truth.
2006-07-13 03:45:58 · answer #9 · answered by Mollywobbles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, and no.......although you thought you were doing the right thing by answering your little bro's question, this topic would best be suited for your mom or dad to answer. Tell him you were not completly honest with him and that he should ask your parents.
2006-07-12 22:23:58 · answer #10 · answered by jes81_99 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋