I work with a big consulting firm and im(23) the assistant to the secretary of the MD/CEO of the company.
I love my job but i dont want to tarnish the image of my boss cos he's a nice person.
He always want me to hug him when we're alone and tells me to meet him in someplace.
what do i do?
2006-07-12 22:05:07 · 11 answers · asked by babeyinkus111 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Plan A: Let him know that you have a lover and that it's wrong to cheat on your lover. Say that you are an honest person so you cannot cheat.
Plan B: One day, just before you start working, tell him you would like to refresh your memory and go over some of the rules & poicy of the company. Really focus and ask questions with examples when you get to the harassment part.
2006-07-12 22:27:42 · answer #1 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have two choices press sexual harassment chargers and risk being fired or ridiculed by your co workers. You know your boss will denie it. Or you could go a head and see where it leads to. He is a CEO of a company. I am sure he is hot as hell. You need to meet him. Go for it, I guarantee you will be climbing the cooperate ladder. Just think of the thrill and excitement in knowing you are having sex with your boss. Come on now this is a new generation. Agree to work late one night with him and see if he seduces you in his office and if he does go for it girl. You are only young once and look what the CEO of a company can do for you. He can take you to many high places.... I would say go for it.
2006-07-13 05:11:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get proof of this then take your complaint to an attorney and sue the pant off of him
Why would you want to protect a man like that. Where is your self esteem/respect. ???????????
This is called Sexual Harrashment.
When he hugs you cross your arms across your chest so he isn't pushing up against your boobs. When he talks about meeting him someplace. Just say. I want you to stop hugging me and saying these things to me, it makes me very uncomfortable'
This man is scum , no amount of niceness excuses his behavior.
You need to stand up for all the women who get sexually harrased and help change things in the workplace.
If this man wants to keep his job and his family he needs to
STOP this behavior. Get a new job if you need to, NO job is worth putting up with this horrible behavior.
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Do a search on the internet for non profit or volenteer groups that help women in such situations.
Don't put up with this for one more day!
2006-07-13 05:16:48 · answer #3 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Act professionally and encourage him to do the same. If he continues to pursue you, start documenting it and slap that big consulting firm with a huge harassment law suit. You may never have to work again. Good luck.
2006-07-13 05:08:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remain polite , but firm , make big excuse not to go out with him , and one day give him surprise , by hugging him ith public , let him also have small punishment by your innocent action , he will not ask you again or he himself will try to ignore , you must behave innocently and say , sir i hope you love to hug me all the time . Try once .
2006-07-13 05:13:21 · answer #5 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont want to tarnish his image because he is a nice person????Is there something wrong with you? You need to document everything and file sexual harassment charges on him...geeeeeeeeeeeeze
2006-07-13 05:11:05 · answer #6 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him to take a cold shower and if you get fired- sue the company- he will prolly get fired for it too.
2006-07-13 05:08:03 · answer #7 · answered by ProZack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you do like him too, well, why not go with him.
2006-07-13 05:14:52 · answer #8 · answered by HisAngel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sleep with him
2006-07-13 05:25:07 · answer #9 · answered by missing u2323 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do him!
2006-07-13 05:07:57 · answer #10 · answered by ONE 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋