My bf and I have been together for about 5 years now. Every wed and fri he goes out....Several times there were emergencies and I had to get a hold of him but he NEVER picks up his phone. Many times Ive asked him why he never picks up and he always tells me the same thing....."Wed and Fri are my days to go out, dont ask me where im going and dont call me when Im out" So many times Ive gotten that feeling like hes hiding something....whats he really doing? Whats the big deal? Why cant he just answer his phone?
2006-07-12 22:02:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I just want to cry reading all those answers cause I wish he would treat me better...I love him so much but hes always excluding me from everything...Thanks so much for taking the time to answer it............
2006-07-12 22:13:19 · update #1
Oh my goodness sweetheart, that's rough. It sucks that you have to feel that way. I know you wanna leave, but you don't cause you love him. I mean you have been with him for five years now, so of course it's gonna be hard just to pick up and leave after all those years.
What I suggest you do is really assess whether you see a future with him. If he is behaving this way, then I wouldn't see why you would want to be with him. If I was in you shoes, I would think that he is indeed up to something and would talk to him about it. Sit him down and tell him your feelings and that you deserve to be treated with respect. Let him know that you'll end it if he doesn't step up to the plate and treat you right. If his behaviour still persists, then honey, I know it's gonna be hard, but you have to leave. You can't let a guy disrespect you like that.
2006-07-15 16:09:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
He has 2 days a week for him only? He needs to get over himself. So you have no idea what he does on "his" wednesdays and Fridays? Pull the same stuff on him. Just at least don't answer the phone and don't answer any of his questions. I bet he wouldn't like that. As Seinfeld would say, "The old switcheroo"
2006-07-15 19:46:28 · answer #2 · answered by JoeIQ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya it is so funny. He should really tell U what he is doing. 5 years together is not short.
Like he could say spending time with his hobby is OK. Cuz a relationship needs a breathing space.
And, scold him for not picking up emergency calls. Please do call only when real emergency and not like U had a cut on your finger......
Or U had been too dependent on him? Spent some time for youself too! Find new friends! They could open up your heart =)
=)
2006-07-12 22:07:02 · answer #3 · answered by Lucky♣Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's up to no good. if ur with a guy who enjoys upsetting u get out of the relationship straight away. it aint worth it. guys are meant to make you happy not sad. i dont care whether he's helping sick ppl when he goes out, if he keeping things from u like that he doesnt care bout u like u do bout him. no worth it
2006-07-12 22:09:21 · answer #4 · answered by bluecherry41 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a 100% jerk
You sound nice.
Find a nice guy who has respect for your feelings.
PS: Back when I had a girlrfiend,friday night,she was standing
right next to me.
2006-07-12 22:09:00 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can not believe what females on this site will put with. Why do you stay with him? He must not care if he has to have special days for himself or maybe with another girlfriend...Why are you putting up with this?
2006-07-12 22:14:37 · answer #6 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry to tell you this but to me it sounds like the stupid son of a gun is tending some other girs lady garden!
2006-07-12 22:08:03 · answer #7 · answered by **star** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can't be good...get to the bottom of it right away!
2006-07-12 22:06:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he is an ******.......find someone new.
2006-07-12 22:11:32 · answer #9 · answered by jes81_99 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋