Is it worth it staying with a guy or a gurl who fights with you everyday like you are happy for like two hours and then yall get into an argument really big would you stay with him or her or would you leave either one please leave your opinon
2006-07-12 21:39:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okk we have tried to fix it everytime we fight but then he says he wants to leave me because we are always fighting but then we stay together because we love each other so I dont want to keep this up so should I stay with him or not?
2006-07-12 21:50:21 · update #1
If the argument is about the same or similar issues every time, then it needs to be resolved once and for all. Othewise, it would appear that the issue is not one that you could easily be reconciled over. If it is a very important issue or a value-related issue in the life of the male or the female, then it would probably be better not to have such a close relationship with a person who cannot agree with you on a basic value or decision of choice. If you cannot be together more than a couple of hours without arguing, about the same issue every time, then you do not need to be together. If the issue is only a minor one- not related to basic values- then you should both try another way to relate to each other than arguing. Someone must talk for a while. Someone must listen for a while. No one can talk all of the time or listen all of the time. Both of you must learn to compromise to make your relationship work.
2006-07-12 22:01:22 · answer #1 · answered by Jess4rsake 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
heck NO!! dump him or her !!Loveis not about arguing allthe freakn time ... is about accepting each other...and understanding...and supporting...and caring... ... and when it is true love then time would be pleasant because you like spending time with that special someone..what i see here is a type of posessive person .. they start manipulatin ppl so that they can get what they want.. and this is a kind of "control" they want to have over you. Later it grows as you let them do that to you and you fall for what they do .. later it can turn to abuse ... verbal and then physicall so be very careful on that .. and pliz get out before you are trapped..
2006-07-13 04:47:59 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. Truth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not worth at all.Relationships exists so the two partners can find peace and love with each other without fighting and arguing
2006-07-13 04:43:34 · answer #3 · answered by ♥beautyfly♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love isn't always enough to keep the relationship.. if you feel you fight too much over the smallest things then you might not be right for each other.. sorry.. but i've seen my parents fight too often .. there was no understanding.. just love.. made it like hell for me and my 6 siblings
2006-07-13 04:47:54 · answer #4 · answered by Ninja CK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did u try to fix it?
first if u guys r togother in love then u have to find a way to stop fightin and get along thats what u should work on at first but if u cant fix it then no dun stay!
2006-07-13 04:44:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO it is nothing more than chaos. A relationship works because both parties COMPROMISE and come to a resolution. It is unhealthy
2006-07-13 04:49:31 · answer #6 · answered by ric_ozz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run very fast for safety. Supposing he hits you lame do you think he will be there for damn disabled girl like you.cheers
2006-07-13 04:46:49 · answer #7 · answered by loagule 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not worth it. trust me
jump ship, leave, fly, adios, ciao, get out of there!
just go
2006-07-13 04:51:24 · answer #8 · answered by jam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it not worth it, runnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn
2006-07-13 04:43:54 · answer #9 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
noooooooooooo
2006-07-13 04:53:12 · answer #10 · answered by Leonardo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋