I'm 5'2" and weighs 107 lbs. That is not overweight, right? I'm NOT pretty, I know, but I'm NOT ugly either. I just think that I don't have that appeal and charm which attracts guys.
I don't have a bad smell. I don't have skin disease. I'm not mean. I expose myself a lot and socialize with a lot of good people. So, why is it that no guy has ever been attracted to me?
2006-07-12 21:24:09 · 9 answers · asked by Mrs Brandon 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You did not mention your age, which would certainly affect the answer to your question.
Never the less, I will assume you are around 15 or so.
Firstly, what kind of guy do you want to attract? Make a list of all the qualities you want in a guy. Use this as your guide, and do not concern yourself with any guy who would not 'measure up'.
Secondly, look at your list, and then ask yourself, what kind of qualities would such a guy want in a girl? Make a second list of girl qualities, and make this list your 'to do' list. Go about working on yourself, to develop these qualities.
I don't see how you could possibly be overweight at 107. Don't even think that.
Every guy is different, but there are some basic things that almost every guy likes.
Be as feminine as you can be. I know the style is for girls to have short hair and wear pants, but look at all the models the guys oogle, and notice that most of them have long hair and wear dresses or skirts. This will make you stand out, and definitely get a lot of attention.
Smile as much as you can. Even a plain Jane will look beautiful when she smiles.
Be positive. Talk about good things. Sincerely complement people, guys and girls. Say things about what they wear or do, rather than complementing their person.
Ask questions about people, and then listen intently when they answer. If you can get a guy to talk about himself, he will think you are brilliant. Say something nice about some good quality they have, then ask a question. For example, "you're a really good speaker, you tell interesting stories. How did you learn to do that?"
Have faith in yourself.
Also, ask someone who cares about you and who's judgment you respect to give you an honest critique. What are my flaws? Take notes, then go to work on them.
Finally, you can do what I did. Instead of praying for God to send you the answer to YOUR prayers, I prayed to God to let ME be the answer to someone's prayers.
SUCCESS!
2006-07-12 21:48:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you have to think yourself sexy.Look in the mirror and ONLY look for your best points.force yourself not to think of the bad points.you have to learn to love yourself before anyone else will.make the best of yourself.I am 5ft 10,so I make the most of my legs.If you have got a nice cleavage,wear low cut tops.Get some nice lipsticks,and never leave the house without some on.It always makes me feel instantly nice.try a new hair colour,something vampy.look at clothes differently,think sexy every time you shop.you have to re-train your brain.once you feel good,men pick up on it.you have to learn to relax,do not be a wall flower.
2006-07-13 04:32:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotta look and act sexy, cause thats what a guy wants these days. If you are nice, well that aint gonna work.Even though youre not pretty you must have some special features which you are proud off. If you do show em off girl!!!!
2006-07-13 04:35:44 · answer #3 · answered by Hope2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because U R Mrs. If U were single or divorcee, many guys would have tried for your company.
2006-07-13 07:53:35 · answer #4 · answered by dharap123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to show a guy your personality. Be sweet and smile, guys like that. I'm sure you'll be fine. It's just a matter of time.
2006-07-13 04:28:43 · answer #5 · answered by Sweety 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is time for everything, so ur time is still on the way,never loose hope.
2006-07-13 04:36:06 · answer #6 · answered by mekanical 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not all bout luks.,....its ur inner self...ur belief in u.....try to b more positive n confident while u walk....n if possible change ur outlook too
2006-07-13 04:31:08 · answer #7 · answered by Bond007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your too smart and intelligent making guys hesitant to approach you..
2006-07-13 14:28:04 · answer #8 · answered by snappy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you?
2006-07-13 04:27:52 · answer #9 · answered by wd20x2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋