i m dishearted.i m no longer saving myself from sex activity.
now i want every boy raped me violently with full of force, torturing me.i should raped 100 of time daily.every 1 may **** me.
what should i do.stand naked in the middle of the road,or hang da sign in my neck that " rape me please"?
please tell me
2006-07-12 20:26:47 · 26 answers · asked by anna 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
Wow...I'm really sorry that happened to you. I'm sure it feels like a waste saving everything, but you shouldn't give up all your morals. If you do that, then your rapist will have won. You can't give that sick son of a **t*h anything else. You are worth way more. Don't let him have that. You should still respect yourself, you didn't do anything wrong. Why start now?
2006-07-12 20:28:49 · answer #1 · answered by Mandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if this is a serious post, i'm very sorry. i actualy knew a couple people in high school that were raped. it's a horrible thing and will take a while to get over, but just because some jerk came into your life and took this away from you doesnt mean you ahve to give up. you are still you and your values will remain the same as long as you dont run from them.
it seems now that you've spent time only to have it stolen from you, and no one expects you to feel different, but just knowing that your feelings right now arent crazy or abnormal for your situation might help. The best thing you can do now is to spend time with family and friends. learn to be comfortable again. if you're around people that you love and can trust, your anxiety might lessen.
as for what you have to save? yourself.. your personality, your morals, your health, your self esteem/respect, and many more; the most important of wich would be that you would be saving yourself from re-living the moment again and again. The only thing that giving into self-destructive behavior does is keep you in the spot you're in right now.
so please, dont think i'm preaching or judging. Its just that i've seen people go through this before and i just hope you get through it alright.
2006-07-13 03:39:18 · answer #2 · answered by Lestat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel sorry for what happened to you. It is very unfortunate considering you constantly avoiding any sexual activity to remain as a virgin. Sorry, if I am wrong. But did you make a police report?
Even at this point, you should be strong to accept that and don't think too much. Sometimes, we have to cooperate with the inevitable; in a sense that, do not try to change the past as it is already happened and nothing can be changed.
It makes more sense to change your present situation than the past. Start over a new lifestyle and forget about the bad encounter. For what that asshole did to you, he will face his deserved fate.
Yes, it is easy for me to say but I hope I can help you in someway. If you think you can overcome this you really can!!
2006-07-13 06:12:59 · answer #3 · answered by Berserker_Gatsu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of al m sory 2 say it seems u r a pessimistic. u'v mch mor thngs 2 save. u can save other girls 4m being raped. i cn understand beina a gal n al alone u wont b able 2 change mch in d wrld. bt ur effort wont go waste. though ur effort may b a drop in d ocean bt u should nt 4gt that by drop n drop only an ocean is made.
if evry gal starts thinking like u thn nt a single gal cn survive in this world.
u r raped, its nt ur fault then y r u feeling ashamed. u'vnt done any henious crime. u'v 2 tk certain strong efforts so that gradualy its numbr can b brought down. no boy can even dare 2 even misbehave wid a gal.
m sorry 2 say i don hav sympathy 4 u because sympathies r 4 thoes who r weak, hav lost hop, r dependent on others etc.
my words may sound heartles bt thats the realm of life, this world has no space 4 d ppl who thinks they hav lost everything(thats nth bt their mindset), bt in reality they at that moment also hav everything.
2006-07-13 03:50:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I'm so sorry for what you have gone through. There is a difference between between the force of a rape and the love shared between you and your future husband. You are still pure in the eyes of God. The rape was not your choice. You did not choose to give up that innocence. I pray for God to comfort you and heal your pain. Bless you.
2006-07-13 03:33:34 · answer #5 · answered by *AstrosChick* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have YOURSELF to save. There's a difference between being raped and having sex.
Whoever raped you, report them to the police. Then see a therapist - the police will be able to tell you who can help you see that this isn't the end of the world, and that you can heal.
2006-07-13 03:30:32 · answer #6 · answered by triviatm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let this person have any more power over you than he already has. Rape is not about sex it it about power. You have not given sex to anyone it was taken from you. You can still save sex for someone who is special. Love between two people is stronger than that and a decent man will accept the fact that you want to wait to give your self to him. Don't feel bad about yourself get counseling please know that there is a big difference between giving yourself to someone when you love them. Don't let that person take anything more from you than he already has. You are still a good person despite what has happened to you. Please don't think you have nothing left to save for someone special.
2006-07-13 03:41:48 · answer #7 · answered by DD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually you should go to the police.. have some self respect then get a medical examination done and take him to court. Save others from monsters like him...... Dont be afraid you gotta keep your head up in the hardest of times.
2006-07-13 03:30:38 · answer #8 · answered by eternal_soldierz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seek professional help in dealing what has happened to you. You are a valuable person and you did not "give away anything". You do not deserve to think so lowly of yourself just because someone raped you. It is not your fault.
2006-07-13 03:31:57 · answer #9 · answered by Roger S M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't do that. It wasn't your fault or choice to be raped. You can still save your self from sexual activity. I'm really sorry about what happened to you.Please take care of yourself. ( Don't lie about being raped .)
2006-07-13 03:33:09 · answer #10 · answered by Deerrunner 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋