2006-07-12 20:12:46 · 23 answers · asked by nachthymnem 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We've been going out for 11 months and we love eatch other more then anything. I understand the consinquences but I have been heart broken before. Why experience your teen years when you can have someone right beside you sharing it with you?
2006-07-12 21:26:49 · update #1
My parents met when they were 13 and married at 15 had their first child at 16 second child at 20 and the third at 24. 35 year later they are still married and happy ( i honestly think it would kill the other if something happen to one of them). So yes a 16yo could have a successful relationship but that was also a different time.
2006-07-12 20:26:16 · answer #1 · answered by shellshell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you mean commited? If i understood well u mean staying with this guy (not literally) and make plans together about future without thinking you are too young.. Well it was lil before i turned 16 that I started a relationship with my bf and after a year i can tell you that we make plans of staying together next year and also make plans for our future.. If you really love this guy then of course you can commit.. Just don't make yourself lost in the relationship and don't lose your teen years.. I mean don't act as an adult who is in a relationship and all but be with him and have nice time together..enjoy your life together..and don't worry that u r young or something.. love sees no age..If you love each other then that is everything...commitment comes through time..
Get to know him better.. what he likes and what not.. what his favourites things are,how he likes to dress.. focus on making him happy and being happy yourself as well.. Don't worry about commitments.. it will just come =P
2006-07-13 03:22:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can be committed at your age but this will not be your last love you are young and need to experience life. You should have more loves before you actually commit to spending the rest of your life with one person. This is part of a learning and growing experience that everyone goes through.
2006-07-13 03:19:49 · answer #3 · answered by DD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Unless you're vying for a trial marriage with the expectation of getting divorced at 30, you are making a bad mistake. This love you are experiencing now is a lot different than the love two adults share. By then they have more maturity and life experience to make it work. Trust me.
2006-07-13 03:18:24 · answer #4 · answered by NVgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is... if true love is there and it's not just a phase. I am 20 (just turned 20 in June) and I have been with my boyfriend for almost 4 1/2 years. Even though he is quiet older than me, (26), we get along great and love every minute we spend with each other. It is quiet possible. Just don't do anything you'll regret later in life because your still young and have a road full of life ahead of you. Good luck!! Congrats on being in love!!!
2006-07-13 03:16:32 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Courtney♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! I fell in love with my wife at 16 and we have been married 36 years. Went together for 3 years before marriage.
2006-07-13 03:16:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are both committed and in love, yes you can have a good relationship. There are many people who met young and went on to get married and live happy lives together.
2006-07-13 03:15:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how mature the two of you are, and whether you're willing to work to make the relationship work out. Things won't always be easy, so it'll take effort on both of your parts, but if you're willing to try, there's just as much chance of it being successful as any other relationship.
2006-07-13 03:17:30 · answer #8 · answered by x_chynadoll814_x 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You do not have the experience of trial and error. What we think we know at that age changes fast. Go to school establish yourself and look for the long term later.
2006-07-13 03:18:56 · answer #9 · answered by ric_ozz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, but it's rare. don't rush into anything too serious yet because you both still have a lot of growing up to do. just be happy with each other. when you get older and you are more settled in your own lives you'll have a better idea of where you want to go.
2006-07-13 03:17:38 · answer #10 · answered by vampire_kitti 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋