My and my girl have been together for a couple of months and had sex on a regular basis. But the last couple of weeks we havent even fooled around. I have been taking her out and she stays the night, i even got her a gift the other day and we went to dinner, but at the end of the night, nothing! i dont base our relationship on sex but this is killing me going on 18 days and we see each other every other day. I asked why and she simply said she is not in the mood. Its pissing me off cause we used to have sex all the time and i dont wanna look elsewhere if worst comes to worst. I shouldnt have to beg for it being her boyfriend and all. whats the deal?
2006-07-12 20:10:04 · 21 answers · asked by iluvjesus 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well if the hoe is cheating then ill have make some black eyes to reminder her who owns her ***..again
2006-07-12 20:17:05 · update #1
Maybe she does need a break or she's just not into the sex.Or maybe you don't turn her on or your just not pleasing her.
2006-07-12 20:14:20 · answer #1 · answered by gurl9613 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't get upset and don't listen to people on here that don't know you situation!! Remember these response are only based on what you give us...nobody on here truly knows the love in your relationship so don't FREAK OUT!!! Sometimes women just aren't in the mood that doesn't' mean anything...She could be testing your love or she's stressed or depressed about work, school, or the direction of her life in general. Talk to her, but DON"T even bring up sex!! Don't make this a big issue....give her some time and space. Don't make her feel pressured or guilty for not having sex with you it will only make matters worse!! I know I went through a period where I didn't want it either and my b/f made me feel soooooo bad, so I did it anyway. Now we are not even together, not only b/c of this but other things as well. So you don't want to run her off with this dumb sex issue. If you truly care and love her you will be patient and wait till she is ready...cheating on her will ruin your relationship and you know it!! Even if she doesn't' leave you right off she will NEVER!! forgive you and that burden will eventually out way the good (relationship)!! Not to mention her really NOT!! wanting sex from you anymore!!! So think about it and sincerely talk this over with her before you jump to conclusions.
Good Luck & Be Blessed!!!!
2006-07-13 03:42:49 · answer #2 · answered by AAP0305 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could just be getting close to her time of the month i know i can't stand sex for about 2 weeks usually the week during and the week after its hands off, if not that then it could be that she is really just not in the mood(you know like eating the same thing everyday for a month and not wanting it anymore for a while even though you still really like it). If it isn't either one of those then she is through with you to put it bluntly(sorry the only way i know to say it). Leave and move on because you should not have to beg by no means.
2006-07-13 03:20:39 · answer #3 · answered by shellshell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, how old are you and how old is she. There may be a reason she stopped having sex with you. Maybe she thinks that is all you want from her and she's testing you to see how long you will stick around. Or maybe something happened the last time you had sex, it was uncomfortable or hurt. It is very common for women to get bladder infections and it can make sex extremely painful and she may be embarrassed to tell you. If you really care for her you will stick around and find out.
2006-07-13 03:17:38 · answer #4 · answered by bebe928 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might have mental issues man. Not being sarcastic but ya know people go through some **** every now and then and try to handle it inside and it has side effects. Everybody is so quick to go down da cheatin road. That road is the easiest seeing that it gives you a reason to cheat and experience a new piece of ***.
2006-07-13 05:27:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The sexual relationshp is a barometer of how the rest of the relationship is going. You can trick her into thinking that things are going great if you buy her nice gifts and dinners ... but after awhile that doesn't work either. Either improve th relationship in other ways or move on.
2006-07-13 03:14:58 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i heard the same thing from one of my ex's when i wasnt in the mood. he shouldnt have to beg his gf for sex. dude if she says she's not in the mood then she's not in the mood no matter how much u had sex in the past. and if u feel u have to go elsewhere for sex then u need to look at ur relationship.
2006-07-13 03:14:56 · answer #7 · answered by petite_laydi19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.there is definitely something going on but before you cheat on her try to find out what the problem is.
it may be that she does not want to be with you anymore but then saying that it may be something has happened in her life that is upsetting her and she really isn't in the mood you need to be firm and tell her that either way you would rather know whats up so you can both get on with your lives
hope it all goes OK!
2006-07-13 03:17:37 · answer #8 · answered by **star** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha you think thats bad i dated a girl for 2 1/2 yrs before we had sex
2006-07-13 03:13:42 · answer #9 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she went on the pill or some sort of birth control, she may be experiencing a loss of sex drive. Switch birth controls in that case.
2006-07-13 03:13:25 · answer #10 · answered by Private Account 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
shoot, try 3 years without! when you have been married and the SOB won't have sex with you, then you might have a complaint. 18 days should just be self control on your part.
just relax and enjoy that she spends time with you
lily
2006-07-13 03:15:41 · answer #11 · answered by lily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋