im muslim and just had sex before marriage..am i doomed or what?

Question

this is sad but i dont pray i dont do anything dat my religion tells me too.....itz not dat i dont want too or have anythin against it...but im in an enviorment where my parents pray and they just stopp pushing me ...am i in danger here man o man ...and i just had sex before marriage ....i knew it was wrong but i couldnt control my self ...this might sounds silly but i can make it up to GOD ...

Answer 1

Just think of it as test driving a car, I mean you wanna know what you're getting before you make that investment.
You're fine good work!

Answer 2

If you have done something wrong then you don't need to tell others and make witness against for the final day.
There only one mistake that God doesn't forgive and that is making partners with him. If you are ashamed of you past acts then you might have been forgiven already.

If you love the girl, marry her, she will inshAllah be a very good wife and by doing so, you will be also following the religion of Islam where Prophet said "The one to marries has already compeleted half of his/her religion" There is a huge reason behind this Hadith but I won't go into details but you are more than welcome to contact me if you have more questions.

Answer 3

Pray to God for forgiveness, and for guidance in your conduct with your girlfriend. Avoid seclusion like the plague! I believe there's a hadith that says that Pr Muhammad (pbuh) said that a man and woman secluded are like fire and cotton. You flare up before you know it!

See her, yes, but never in seclusion. Doesn't mean the entire world has to hear your conversations, but avoid visiting each others' homes when they are all alone. It's not that hard to avoid seclusion, just involve yourselves more in each other's family life.

God wants us with Him. Read the hadith qudsi below, He even tips the scales in our favor. If you are sincere and pray for His forgiveness, you will receive it. However, you and she need to be more responsible from now on, and avoid the circumstances that lead to sex. Once you're at the cusp of the act, it's almost impossible to turn down, so avoid that altogether.

See each other in the light of day.

Answer 4

Don't worry. Be a good man/ woman and the god will be very happy. Help someone, do your duty to the best of your ability, and the god will be happy.

As long as you do not harm,/ betray anyone, even if you dont pray or have sex before marriage , he will not be unhappy with you.

Answer 5

As a Catholic, I can only answer as a Christian. Pray to God for forgiveness and vow never to do it again. Remember, you can't control feelings, but you can control actions. We all make mistakes. Forgive yourself and ask forgiveness with true contrition. The only unforgiveable sin is blasphemy against the holy spirity, basically denying God until death.

Answer 6

According to Islam....what you did was wrong and nothing can justify it but remember that God forgives all sins if sincerely repented. Sincere meaning that you regret what you did, you wont brug about it, your not proud of it, and that you wouldnt wanna do it again. For there is a hadith that says...."Allah the Almighty said:

‘O son of Adam, so long as you call upon Me and ask of Me, I shall forgive you for what you have done, and I shall not mind. O son of Adam, were your sins to reach the clouds of the sky and were you then to ask forgiveness of Me, I would forgive you. O son of Adam, were you to come to Me with sins nearly as great as the earth and were you then to face Me, ascribing no partner to Me, I would bring you forgiveness nearly as great as it.’"

It was related by at-Tirmidhi

And the Quran states.....
066.008 O ye who believe! Turn to Allah with sincere repentance: In the hope that your Lord will remove from you your ills and admit you to Gardens beneath which Rivers flow,

Answer 7

You'd better give up on the idea of doing more good acts in your life than bad man, it isn't gonna work. There's no way you can get into heaven because you've earned more brownie points with your God than demerits, think of all the ways we sin without even THINKING about it. There's a different path, a realistic one, rely on a power greater than yourself for your righteousness.

Answer 8

You are doomed, not because of having sex before marriage, but because of your erroneous, man-made religion!
Sorry, but those are just the facts! If you have any intelligence at all, why don't you try reading the Bible, just once for a comparison, and see what you think, with your own brain? Why would anyone just blindly follow a cultic religion without doing their own investigative research?

Answer 9

2 my point of view (a) u should not expose yr secrets,
(b) camly repent (promise Allah Almighty, The All Hearing, The All Knowing) Study Quran, in SLOW AND STEADY WINS THE RACE.(ask any or me on my mail...if any need 2 know)

and last pleae change yr nickname of this site, go for other that is it.

Allah Maa k.

Answer 10

" قل يا عبادى الذين اسرفوا على انفسهم لا تقنطوامن رحمة الله ان الله يغفر الذنوب جميعا انه هو الغفور الرحيم ."

if you repent , God will forgive you ,In shaa Allah ,but don't do this again ,and you should pray because it's very dangerious if one died and he wasn't praying all his life, this could lead him straight to hell.
read riligious books, hang out with good muslim friends, if you have a bad friend who tells you to do these wrong things , just leave him ,stay away from places where you can find corrupt people.
don't give up , and don't let satan mislead you .

Answer 11

It's ok babe, my boyfriend is muslim & we have sex every chance we get. It's not that big a deal, plus when u think about it sex before marriage just isn't practical these days.

what if u get married then u find out your partner is a dud? then ur stuck with them.

Btw, isn't Ala muslim for God?