Guys looks/stares at me all the time, but none are even trying to talk to me. Not even a simple hello! I don't act snobby, i just keep myself up really good. I walk around friendly, smiling. Alot of people tells me that I am pretty and have a nice shape. So whats the deal?
2006-07-12 19:55:57 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That happens with me all the time, I found out its because they were intimidated by my sex appeal, so its not a bad thing its actually a good thing, cause atleast the not so attractive ones won't even think about approaching you.
LOVE GODDESS
2006-07-12 20:59:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is an interaction that takes place between men and women that results in contact. A man staring at you like that is initiating that interaction. When you fail to act correctly in that situation, he moves on. Many, many women have this problem. They do everything they can to look smoking hot (the very first part of signaling to the community of men that they want a boyfriend). So, of course, available men make initial contact by looking at you. When you fail to respond correctly, they wander off. Warning. Some sick men who have a mentality very much like a rapist, do not care if you give the go ahead to approach. You are highly likely to run into some of these guys who will approach you while others will not. That could be bad news if you are clueless.
What you need to do is this. The next time a guy stares at you, give him the once over. Ask yourself if you like him, particualarlym the "vibe" he gives off. If you do, look him directly in the eye and smile. And keep looking at him. Likely, he will look away and then look to see if you are still looking. If you are, he will approach you.
2006-07-12 20:06:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen beautiful U have to take it the next step.
If u see someone that looks at u then make a comment to break the ice. Do u like what u see. Or be funny say i can speak and hold a good conversation . Its easy to approach a so so looking woman but beauty has a price no one wants to be turned down, and u know others are looking so u have to understand it from that point of view. Every man is not bold enough to speak to u. I'm older so being turned down is nothing to me. I hope u understand.
2006-07-12 20:08:18 · answer #3 · answered by Big R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you asking sweetie? Sounds like you already know why people look at you, you are pretty. So what? A lot women are beautiful...ever read Life & Style.? Well it's full of beautiful women. So just take it as a compliment and stop acting like a complete bimbo. Try being humble and if are that pretty do something with it, like model or get into a talent agency....prove your beauty.
2006-07-12 20:02:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they think you're too good for them and they won't even bother trying..
I had a crush on a guy a while back, after two months I found a way to talk to him, then I found out he's been wanting to ask me out for a long time but was sure I was too good for him and I'd say no!
2006-07-12 20:00:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
solid 'yourmom' what it way is that he's secretly formulating a plan to take over the earth and manage the puny humanzees who're residing interior it as his ant slaves. All hail our new overlord!
2016-10-14 10:16:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be just to imtimidating and if your dressing slutty which of course im not sure is the case you are attracting guys that are pigs. Try going professional looking and dress up and goto places that aren't slutty. You could even just do the approaching if it's to bad im sure none of the guys will complain
2006-07-12 20:00:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get the same thing too but that doesnt mean anything maybe the person just doesnt want to embaress themselves and say i think ure pretty ive seen really good looking guys and i dont go up to them and say hey ure cute.
2006-07-12 19:58:15 · answer #8 · answered by itsraqraq2u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps men are intimidated because you are "too attractive"...
I'm not even joking. Yes, there are going to be men with the confidence to approach very attractive women, but there are also plenty of men that assume they will be shot down without even trying.
2006-07-12 19:59:30 · answer #9 · answered by d h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should make the first move first. Maybe they are intimidated. Just a smile or a nod. See what happens.
2006-07-12 19:58:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋