I think I'm pregnant and I don't know how to tell my mom?

Question

I'm only 16 and my boyfriend and I have only been together for 2 months. We love each other more then anything and we wanted this. [Please don't make comments about that, just my original question please!] My last period was May 26 and ended June 1. Ive taken 3 tests a week apart and they all came out negative but I'm having symptoms, like breast tenderness, extreme fatigue, and the urge to pee 24/7. I want to go to the doctor and have them do a test but I don't know how to ask my mom. And I'm afraid that is I ask her and then thetest says no she is going to try to stop me and keep me away from my boyfriend. [Again, no comments please and thank you!] Please help me!!

He's only 17 right now but will be turning 18 in the next few weeks. At the end of the month.

It was calculated and if i got pregnant on the day I ovulated i would be less then 4 weeks pregnant which I was told is too early for the test to pick it up.

also i would like to know if it costs anything to get the pregnancy test done at planned parenthood and how much?

My fathers dad is and *******. he is constantly telling my bf that he is a loser and he'll never amount the anything in life. i hate his dad and i dont really want him involved in my babies life if i am pregnant.

Answer 1

go to a planned parenthood where they could test you without telling your parents, and if the test comes out positive, tell your mom and hope she understands.

hope this helps^_^

Answer 2

Well, i think you need to buy the test kits to confirm whether are you really pregnant. The symptoms that you having could be a lot of things and may not because you are pregnant. Sometimes it happen if you have rough or to many sex since your age is still young. Your BF should find the money to pay for the test kits. If he knows how to make love to you he must be responsible too.

If that show you are pregnant than you need plan B my dear.

Answer 3

Thinking you are pregnant can be a very scary thing, their are options out their you can go through a health unit or you can buy a test from any pharmacy or grocery store, and sometimes you can get symptoms from just thinking you are. I know you won't want to hear this but you are very young to have a child and honestly if you love each other so much then it shouldn't be a problem to wait till your a little older.. please think of the life you could offer a child when your a little older.......

Answer 4

Ok, dont panic sweetheart. Go to a doctor, or a public medical centre, if your afraid from seeing your family practioner. Get the actual result and go from there. If you are pregnant, have a big long think if you want to have the baby. Its your body and your choice. When youve made up your mind, then you have to tell your mom. Just sit her down and explain to her your situation, and how much you want your boyfriend in your's and your baby's life. If she has any respect for the woman you are, then she will give you respect and understanding. Parents are protective, just imagine urself in their shoes... good luck honey.

Answer 5

I KNOW HOW HARD THIS QUESTION IS TO ANSWER BECAUSE OPINIONS ARE BELLYBUTTONS(KEEPING IT CLEAN) EVERYONE HAS ONE.FIRST OFF-HOW IS YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR MOTHER?IF IT IS A GOOD STRONG ONE -JUST SIT HER DOWN AND LET HER KNOW YOUR FEAR OF BEING PREGNANT,GIVE HER THE OPORTUNITY TO COUNSEL YOU AND YOUR BOYFRIEND.I KNOW I HAD THE SAME PROBLEM WHEN I WAS YOUNGER AND WAS NOT FORTUNATE ENOUGH TO HAVE AN UNDERSTANDING PARENT-YOU HAVE TO BE AN ADULT AND FACE THE MUSIC SO TO SPEAK.IF YOU ARE INDEED EXPECTING IT IS NOT LIKE YOU CAN KEEP IT A SECRET FOR LONG.YOUR LOCAL HEALTH DEPARTMENT CAN GIVE YOU A TEST TO DETERMINE THE POSSIBILITY OF PREGNANCY AND IS NOT A COSTLY THING IN MOST STATES(HAVE HIM GO WITH YOU FOR MORAL SUPPORT)AFTER RECEIVING THE VERDICT GO TO YOUR MOTHER AND GIVE HER THE CHANCE TO HELP YOU ADJUST TO THE SITUATION(DO WHAT YOU FEEL IS RIGHT FOR THE TWO OF YOU AND YOUR RELIGIOUS BELIEFS).I DON'T CHOOSE ABORTIONS PERSONALLY AND WAS ABLE TO DELIVER MY CHILD BUT YOU HAVE TO DO WHAT IS RIGHT FOR YOU WITHOUT OUTSIDE PRESSURES FROM YOUR FRIENDS AND OTHER OUTSIDERS.YOUR MOTHER WILL MORE THAN LIKELY HAVE SOME STERN WORDS FOR YOU AND YOU SHOULD LET HER SPEAK(SHE ONLY HAS YOUR BEST INTEREST AT HEART)SO LET HER ADVISE YOU AND TAKE IT WITH A GRAIN OF SALT AS THEY SAY.IF YOU AND YOUR BOYFRIEND ARE ADULT ENOUGH TO CREATE A CHILD THEN YOU SHOULD BE ADULT ENOUGH TO FACE THE HURT AND DISAPPOINTMENT YOUR MOTHER IS BOUND TO RELAY TO YOU.PLEASE LET HER IN TO YOUR CONFIDENCE AND TRUST HER TO STAND BY YOUR SIDE AND HELP YOU THROUGH THE DECISION MAKING PROCESS OF WHAT YOU AS A COUPLE PLAN TO DO WITH THIS SITUATION.ITS A BIG STEP HAVING CHILDREN SO THINK CAREFULLY AND BY ALL MEANS INCLUDE YOUR BOYFRIENDS FAMILY IN THE DECISION PROCESS TOO.ITS HIS "FAMILY "TOO.GOOD LUCK AND TRY TO TRUST YOUR FAMILIES TO GIVE YOU THE SUPPORT THAT YOU NEED.

Answer 6

the best thing to do is be honest and tell her you would like to be close enough with her you can tell her anything, and depending on what state you live in you r considered an adult cuz once you r 17 you r considered on your own, but if you was my daughter i would want you to beablr to come to me with any prob. you my have cause i would not want you to feel alone ans scared,relax things will work out god makes things happen for a good reason just trust in your self and be the best person you can be god bless

Answer 7

Gee, if you thought you were "grown up" enough to have sex with someone you don't know so well, how could it be so hard to discuss this with your mom? If, as you say, you both wanted to be pregnant, do the right thing - get married, have babies and be mature. How in the world did you expect to post this and people not make comments?

Answer 8

those test result should be accurate if you did the test right, i don't think you are pregnant, those symptoms could be PMS,wait one more week, if still no period, talk to your mom regardless.

this is a important lesson for you, use protection in the future, don't risk things like this. no protection, no sex, if your boy friend really loves you, he will never put you in this position again.

Answer 9

Sooner or later you have to tell her no matter what your choice is.

Just so you know, it takes alot longer then 2 months to really love someone.

Answer 10

if you are underage, your doctor will need to report this to the authority...